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Well early this morning I was woken up by being in a lot of pain and I went to the bathroom and a big clot came out followed by a lot of bleeding. I called me doctor and told them and asked if they still wanted me to go to the u/s or not. I never got a call back so I went and when I got there they had cancelled my u/s with a message saying to call my doc. I did and my doc's nursed talked to me and she was super rude. She told me my Hcg was to low for me to be pregnant and I asked how I got 2 positive ones and she responded "I guess you didn't read them right cause there was no way you could of been pregnant" I then asked about the clots and the major bleeding and pain and she said "Yes dear, that would be called your period" I started crying and said you don't need to be rude about it and hung up, I"m hoping she felt bad after.
Anyway, I know what I felt and in my experience your gut feeling is usually the right feeling and I feel like I had a chemical pregnancy and I passed it this morning.
DH and I are going to take a month or two off and maybe try again in April or May depending on when my period falls.
Thanks everyone for listening or I guess reading my posts and helping me through this. You ladies are seriously awesome!
Wow what a terrible nurse. She shouldn't be talking to patients if she is going to treat them like that.
I agree with you, your gut will tell you more than most other things. I am so sorry you are going through this. You are going to get your rainbow baby. Any loss no matter how early is painful. Take your time to grieve, and come back when you are ready.
You will be missed, can't wait to see you back.
I am so sorry that lady was rude to you on the phone!!! I am so sorry that you had a chemical pregnancy I am really sad to see you go but totally understand needing to take a break. I look forward to seeing you come back this spring. Hoping that when you are back at TTC that your first cycle gives you your rainbow baby!!! So sorry again that you are going through this and that woman did not help any either on the phone
That is so awful! I would call back and ask to speak with your doctor and let them know how you were treated. That is unacceptable. Also, give them a bad review online wherever you can. I'm so sorry you had to experience this rude person. Biggest hugs.
I would also call back and complain, this process is already hard enough and you don't need to deal with idiotic people at the same time. I am so sorry for you loss and look forward to hearing from you again soon.
Thanks everyone! I did call back because I wanted to make a appt withmy doc and did say something about her and they apologized and said that she shouldn't of acted like that and will talk to my doc about it. I will see where my period lands next month and will probably try after that. Hope to see everyone soon!
I am so sorry to read this. And even more sorry that they were so rude to you. How can someone work in such a sensitive field and be so horrible. I hope that she felt awful after. I also hope that you feel better and if you need to chat I am always here.