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March 22nd, 2013, 11:46 AM
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I know this is probably stupid of me, because I know many of you have been trying and trying with no success for many many months. But I just need to vent...

I hate that my body is messing with my mind so much. I get a positive OPK at least once a day for the past 3 days...then they go negative...then they come back. Idk if it has to do with the dilution of my urine or what, but it's making me crazy.

I'm not even going to get started with my temps.

And as far as being CD41 and no O yet (first month off bcp)...do yall think it's a good idea for me to continue BDing and "trying"?? or is this dangerous...isn't it bad to conceive with a late ovulation? Or is that made up? I don't want to cause any complications for a possible pregnancy...

Sorry that I'm complaining. I want to stay positive, but I've been very down this morning. I got another positive OPK. Honestly, I'd be ok with not getting pregnant this first cycle, but I at least want to know I ovulate and that I'm normal. Right now, I'm feeling very abnormal....with no explanations for anything.

Thanks for listening
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May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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March 22nd, 2013, 11:57 AM
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After I had my iud removed last year it took like 3 months for my period to come back. I don't think it will hurt to keep BDing but with it being this far into your cycle and no confirmed ovulation, I think it may be better to at least let your period come first if you're ok with that. Give it another couple of days and then call your dr and explain the situation. You're young and from what I understand you always has a normal cycle prior to BC. There is no reason to suspect that it would be anything different once it returns but for peace of mind seeing your dr wouldn't hurt. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. (((((Hugs)))))
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March 22nd, 2013, 11:57 AM
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I am sorry I have not been in your position but I think you have every right to rant. I don't know about late o and conception. But I just wanted to say I am looking forward to tomorrow's temp ill totally be chart stalking you.
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March 22nd, 2013, 12:00 PM
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you have every right to rant!! I have never heard that it was bad (late O conceiving) But like I always say, I am no dr. lol.
I feel the sammmmme way as you only my body is being incognito about everything. I dunno. BUT if ya need someone to vent to you can alway PM me
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March 22nd, 2013, 12:37 PM
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Im sorry your in this situation..this might sound really dumb and you can tell me if it is but have you tried taking an hpt? Just an idea sorry if thats dumb of me to say..well anyway I hope this cycle stops messing with you fx hun huggsss!
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March 22nd, 2013, 12:45 PM
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Im sorry your in this situation..this might sound really dumb and you can tell me if it is but have you tried taking an hpt? Just an idea sorry if thats dumb of me to say..well anyway I hope this cycle stops messing with you fx hun huggsss!
not dumb at all! I actually took one this morning with FMU because my OPKs have been so dark...it was negative.


Thanks everyone for listening and for commenting! I appreciate yalls support so very much. I think I'm going to make an apt with my doctor if I don't get a period within another 2 weeks or so...Then it will be 2 months since I quit BCP. I know they say give it 3 months but I don't think I can lol...I'm too worried.

The main thing right now is I don't want to keep trying if Oing this late is too dangerous. But I don't want to give up when I'm showing so many signs of O now....I hate to throw in the towel.
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Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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March 22nd, 2013, 01:07 PM
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I will tell you what my Dr told me..
BFP is like heroine for your ovaries
Some people react different, but son will have serious hormonal
Withdraws.. It may take many surges through out your first three
Cycles before your body gets the hang of ovulating on its own again
Some people/doctors think the later you ovulate the less healthy
Your egg I'd, this I'd true at any point in your cycle you can have
The same problems at 10 & 14dpo as at 30, 40 or even 60dpo..
Many women have had perfect and healthy babies when ovulating late
So don't let that worry you... Take a breath and step back for a
Second, stress can make your body do unspeakable things.
And above all remember your self, don't for get to take a day just for you..
Hope this helps...

It is sposed to say BCP Phone edited it to BFP.. LOL
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March 22nd, 2013, 01:11 PM
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You have every right in this world to vent It does not matter if this is cycle 1 or 100 it is just as nerve wrecking and emotional as can be. If you want some relief maybe you can ask your doctor for provera to help induce your period. I hope this helps
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March 22nd, 2013, 01:14 PM
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They can put you on provera to get a period and if you arent ovulating they can put you on clomid i was taking that but i just ran out of my prescript and havent asked the dr yet to refill we are ttc without any meds for a few months see if we have any luck
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March 22nd, 2013, 01:38 PM
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You girls are so nice. I appreciate it so much! Reading y'all's posts make me happy
My DH and I are going to get out tonight, take a break from BDing, and go see The Call... That new scary movie! I hope that helps pull me out of this mood.

Another question though...
I've been doing OPKs since CD13 and I got negatives all day every day for a long time. Just within the past week I've been getting positives in the mornings, but not afternoons. Could testing in the morning be giving me false positives? If that were true though, wouldn't I have gotten positives on all the other mornings too? I got a positive yesterday morning and a positive this morning. Now it's very negative and it was negative yesterday evening as well.

Any insight on that?
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Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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March 22nd, 2013, 02:05 PM
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I could have written this! I went off bcp late November 2012. My first two periods were fine...right on time. Last month, I ovulated late and my period came 9 days late. This month, im waiting for ovulation. I dont know why this is happening now but it freaks me out. I feel your pain and get where you are coming from. Hang in there...our babies will be coming soon!!
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March 22nd, 2013, 02:47 PM
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So sorry sweetie!!! I hope you can get some answers soon & get on with the baby making business. ((hugs)) Feel free to PM me if you ever want to talk
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March 22nd, 2013, 03:01 PM
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I could have written this! I went off bcp late November 2012. My first two periods were fine...right on time. Last month, I ovulated late and my period came 9 days late. This month, im waiting for ovulation. I dont know why this is happening now but it freaks me out. I feel your pain and get where you are coming from. Hang in there...our babies will be coming soon!!
We should definitely be buddies in this. I know it you feel how I do, you must be going crazy!!!


Thanks again everyone... I truly love y'all! I would probably have already given up without y'all's support

I just went and ran 3 miles of frustration off. I haven't been running lately because I thought I should let my body rest so it could O... But sitting around is making me depressed. Now I'm going to go eat all the calories I just burned at an Italian restaurant with my DH

Feel free to keep posting if you have advice for me! I love all of it and I check in often to read!!
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Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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March 22nd, 2013, 03:31 PM
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I know how you feel. I've also been having super long cycles since going off bcp's. I hate it so much. I was always so regular before taking them.

I wish you the best of luck. I have an appointment on April 2nd so hopefully they can do something about my super irregular periods.
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March 22nd, 2013, 03:39 PM
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Please pm me WHENEVER you want! My friends are all either so fertile all they need is a look to get pregnant or having serious fertility issues....I get support but no one really gets what is happening. Its so nice to have someone who feels your pain! I work out for stress too!
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March 22nd, 2013, 04:32 PM
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Waiting for your cycle to get back to normal after bc is so stressful. Especially when you read up on it and see that people had gotten pregnant within the first cycle or even the first 3 months. It is a very stressful time, and you should vent here, nothing wrong with that at all. Easier said than done advice...try not to stress because that also plays a part. Keep your chin up buttercup, your BFP is coming sooner than ya know it!
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March 22nd, 2013, 05:11 PM
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I don't have anything to add because tiggblue and Gamer_Princess said it perfectly. Hoping your body figures out what it wants to do, I can definitely relate to that frustration of things. Don't ever feel like you can't rant and complain because we can definitely understand and relate to you in some way shape or form.
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March 22nd, 2013, 07:31 PM
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I really don't have anything else to add because the other ladies pretty much covered it all. I just wanted to say I am glad you got to go out tonight and have some fun. You deserve it!
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March 22nd, 2013, 09:22 PM
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Smiling after reading all these you ladies are amazing!

We had a good night... I did break down for a few minutes earlier and cried to my DH about not being "normal". He didnt really know what to say but he listened to me, I got a good cry out, and we headed to the movies. Sometimes I think you just need to let yourself be emotional... I feel better after crying...although idk how long it will last :/ probably until I take my temp in the am lol

We saw the movie The Call.... It was SO good!!
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May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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