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So it is awful when it isn't your month. Ive yet to have a bfp month.
So I was wondering...what do you guys do to cope and not feel bleak?
I'm treating myself to sangria and pizza on Saturday for my bros bday. Dh and I are going to Vegas in a few weeks and I will be sipping some poolside mojitos. We are running a 5k the following weekend and then going to a salsa tasting festival with friends. Also...Ill probably work in eating some brie cheese and Sushi. Lol
I usually drink loads of wine while the is visiting... funny because it is the same thing I do when my mother visits.... I think they are one in the same at times
Other than that I start to prepare for a new month because a new month just means one more cycle till I get my DH goes out of the way each time and we usually hae a cheesy date night if possible and then act like we are in college again
Nothing is off limits during AF so I pretty much do everything I wanted because I thought I was "pregnant" almost to the point I refuse to do anything like pick up doggie poo just because I might potentially be pregnant...DH is use to it by now but still the sting never gets easier when I see red....
It does suck so bad to look at that pee stick and see nothing. I keep imagining what its going to be like when I finally see a faint pink line. I wonder how long Ill keep it to myself, just between me, my little eggie and God.
But we gotta keep looking on the bright side and enjoy being alive...
Having a sangria with pizza sounds so good right now. I finished up a bottle of red wine the other night (I got when AF finally showed up) It does hurt when AF shows up especially if you have been going at TTC for more than a cycle. But I keep pushing on because I see pics of DS as a baby and I held two precious babies this week. And for that I press on and tell myself that each time AF comes, I am that much closer to getting my bfp that will lead to me taking a baby home from the hospital.
A cocktail or two and some no no food like sushi helps . Usually I am all "well at least I will have another few weeks to get into a gym routine and start trying to be healthier so that I can still keep going when I get pregnant" etc etc. I just never follow through on it .
I wonder sometimes if I workout too hard. I do an hour about 5 days a week ad I am no where near being too thin, but I workout very intensly. I keep reading that it is fine to do, Ive been doing it for a long time so my body is used to it, but I guess I dont really know!
I have messed up feet and am having problems and Im 99% sure Im getting told by my foot doc next week that I cant workout so that may take care of that....lol