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April 5th, 2013, 09:13 AM
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Here's some bad news. I am out, out for the rest of my life. Chad doesn't want any more kids not even if we did get a girl like we both have wanted. He has been praying that I wouldn't get pregnant since I stopped getting Depo and I guess God has answered his prayers and left mine... well you know. Any way Chad called today and he is seeing the urologist on Friday and do the labs they do and schedule his vasectomy. So I am not happy, but i told him if you want to do it then do it as quickly as possible so I can start to heal and move on. I feel like a piece of me has been ripped out. I was crying and now I feel numb. I have to come to terms with the fact I will NEVER get my princess. That would be a nice name for the kitten if it's a girl, right?
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April 5th, 2013, 09:16 AM
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Oh I am so sorry hun I hope things get better for you
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April 5th, 2013, 09:20 AM
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Oh man...I am sorry. I hope you start to feel better soon about this decision.
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April 5th, 2013, 09:26 AM
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I'm so sorry sweetie
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April 5th, 2013, 09:56 AM
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I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you can find peace with his decision. (((hugs)))
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April 5th, 2013, 10:27 AM
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I am so sorry Is there anyway you guys can sit down together and talk this through since it is a YOU and HIM decision and not just HIS decision? I am thinking of you The best thing about Vs is that they can be reversed in the future Thinking of you
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April 5th, 2013, 10:46 AM
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So sorry to read this I wish that there were words that I could comfort you with, but I know you just have to heal on your own. Just know if you need to pm. I am here.
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April 5th, 2013, 10:55 AM
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He feels that if I did get pregnant he'd resent me and possibly the baby as he didn't want it in the first place. I can understand that, but if he was so sure he didn't want a baby then why drag out the vasectomy since October 2009 when he went in for the consultation.
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April 5th, 2013, 12:00 PM
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I'm so sorry Simone!!! I hope that you can get some peace about this. Will definitely be praying for you!!! I don't think it was very fair of him though to make the appt and just decide to finally have it done.
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April 5th, 2013, 02:05 PM
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April 5th, 2013, 02:12 PM
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Could you ask him to wait 6 months to make his final decision?
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April 5th, 2013, 02:50 PM
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:-( And I thought I was upset for getting my period today! I am sooo sorry darling. I am praying that God will change his mind....maybe you can discuss with him and decide on a deadline?
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April 5th, 2013, 03:17 PM
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I am so very sorry. My heart is breaking for you.
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April 5th, 2013, 03:25 PM
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Oh I am so so sorry I wish I could make things better for you
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April 5th, 2013, 06:04 PM
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Could you ask him to wait 6 months to make his final decision?
No I don't think he would change his mind. He was never set on trying for another after Lennox. He even told me after the fact that he wanted an "L" name for Lennox because it was to signify Last Baby. When we were picking out a name for Lennox that was 4 years ago at the end of this month, by the end of May we chose Lennox Robert.
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April 5th, 2013, 09:53 PM
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I am so sorry I hope that you find peace with his decision but you never know what the future holds. I am praying and thinking of you dear

We are here no matter what and you can PM me anytime you want. Miracles happen every day and maybe you will get a surprise before it takes
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April 5th, 2013, 09:56 PM
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My heart hurts reading this. I am so SO sorry. I hats he is doing this. *HUGS*
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