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Hi ladies. I know I don't post on here that often, but I lurk quite frequently.
So, I'm on cycle day 32. I got a positive OPK on CD 18, 19, and the morning of 20 but it turned negative later that day. I'm not temping, so I can't confirm ovulation. But I think I did ovulate probably on CD 20. (based on EWCM and then my bbs turned sore and have been sore since.) So I THINK I'm about 12 DPO today (Sunday).
So I have taken a FRER with FMU the last 3 mornings in a row....All BFN's. Should I just give up? I'm assuming I would have gotten a BFP by now if I was pregnant. Especially with a FRER.
Probably (or at least it seems that way around were) but you definitely aren't out yet and there sure are people who have gotten first bfps later than that. When you.look at it, if bean is being slow and takes the maximum time, a bfp can sometimes not show up until a couple of days after you are late. I always consider myself out by 12dpo but its really not the case. I figure I can be pleasantly surprised and I would be happy to be proved wrong .
I didn't get my BFP with my daughter until 13 days late on AF. I also didn't track ovulation though, so I ovulated late & simply didn't know it. Maybe the stress is causing a delay in your period? I wouldn't give up just yet though.
most of the time you would get a positive by now but there are alot of ppl who doesnt get their bfp until 7 weeks sometimes even later just dont give up and even if af rears her ugly head dust yourself off and try again
I would agree with what some of the other ladies wrote, that you should get a bfp by now. But stranger things have happened where you don't get your bfp until closer to a week late for AF. You aren't out until AF shows up. Fingers crossed for you!!!