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  #21  
June 17th, 2013, 03:21 AM
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June 17th, 2013, 05:14 AM
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I am so sorry, Nicole Being lied to is the worst...absolute worst!
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June 17th, 2013, 05:33 AM
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I so sorry Nicole, I would hate to see you go You can always hang with us Lies, no matter how big or small, break trust completely...that is a hard thing to come from.
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June 17th, 2013, 06:03 AM
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((Hugs)) to you!! I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine. I don't know what I'd do if my husband lied to me like that. Please don't hesitate to stick around here... We are here to support you!
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June 17th, 2013, 05:26 PM
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This is the first time in almost 13 years together where we have had a fight or he walked out and I have not cried. I do not feel a bit of love towards him at all. My love literally instantly died and that says a lot because I always had such strong feelings for him. I feel so burned and I feel so disgusted by his selfish ways. How dare he use the excuse about not being able to afford another child after all the splurging he has done lately. His excuse is that material items at least you can sell if you need the money back but a child you can not just get rid of when money gets tight. OMG I am so furious with him. I am not answering any of his calls or emails. I already know he does not want to loose me but I can't take his selfish ways anymore. How dare he buy everything he wants that is important to him than tell me I can never have another child after he has been telling me we would for 4 years. I am totally going out with other men this summer and moving on if I meet someone I like. He is going to regret this so much I know him.

and this is not just all about having a baby either. How can I be with someone who I can never believe the things they tell me and who is so selfish with our money. He seriously took all our money, about $10,000 because it was in his bank account, when I asked for some told me no and now I am left with a poverty level monthly income.
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June 17th, 2013, 05:35 PM
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And how kind of him to take all his meds and supplements with him when he moved out except the bottle of FertilAid! this makes me hate him even more. Like he is trying to rub it in my face that he is not doing the reversal.
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June 17th, 2013, 06:17 PM
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That is horrible and totally not fair for you. What was he thinking? I think you are right to break things off with him, even though I barely know you and your situation. There is another baby for you in the future somehow, it just might take longer. HUGS.
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June 17th, 2013, 07:01 PM
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Nicole, I really don't know what to say except that I am very sorry you are going through this right now. Sending lots of your way.
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June 18th, 2013, 05:40 AM
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I am so so sorry this is happening to you! I am at a loss of words. I wish i could help you! i wish there was something i could say. . .
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June 18th, 2013, 08:19 AM
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June 18th, 2013, 09:03 AM
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He sounds like a very selfish person.

I pray you are able to have the strength to do what is right for you and your 2 boys.
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June 18th, 2013, 09:14 AM
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oh no.... how terrible! i would just break it off with him - you're not married? how can you trust him again? he moved out after a fight? not sure if i missed something, but that is just horrible.
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June 18th, 2013, 10:17 AM
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Do what is best for you and your boys. (((HUGS)))
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June 18th, 2013, 02:19 PM
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So selfish of him to do this to you that many times. Lying one time about it was more then he should have done. I'm so sorry he is doing this to you, that is probably one of the most cruel things he could have done to you. Sending you lots of ((((hugs))))
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June 18th, 2013, 02:30 PM
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I am so sorry. I can not believe that you are going through this. I am here for you ifyou need to talk.
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June 18th, 2013, 02:31 PM
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I am so sorry. I am here for you if you need to talk.
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June 18th, 2013, 03:41 PM
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Oh Nicole! I can not believe that a man who said he loves you would be so mean! You are right to feel angry and hurt. Do what is best for you and your boys. There are plenty of wonderful men out there and I am sure that there will be another baby in your future who is wanted by your partner just as much as you! ((Hugs))!
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June 18th, 2013, 08:18 PM
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I'm so sorry you're going through all that. Do what is best for you and your sons.
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