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June 24th, 2013, 06:30 AM
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Feeling a bit down right now. It seems like everyone and their mother is getting pregnant. Most of them aren't even trying. It's definitely made me feel a bit more sad the last few days because of this wave of announcements that seem to be coming through on facebook or on the website Livejournal. I swear either or any time I get onto one of them, BAM, new announcement.

Trying to remain my positive self, but this is hard right now! My husband had to remind me it'll happen. I know it will. /end pity party
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June 24th, 2013, 07:08 AM
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((hugs)) I know how you feel...seems like everywhere I look there are pregnant people or friends getting pregnant. I want it so bad! When is my turn?!?! I'm having a hard time staying positive about it.
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June 24th, 2013, 07:10 AM
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I just logged onto facebook for a minute and had another friend asking me questions about a swing we have and she told me she's pregnant. :/
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June 24th, 2013, 07:26 AM
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I know... A girl at work last night told us she just found out she's unexpectantly pregnant. And we just found out my sister is 10 wks pregnant(but I'm realllllly excited about that actually!)...but still, I wish it were that easy for us!
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June 24th, 2013, 08:21 AM
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We will get there. I went on FB and a girl I know posted a picture of a sonogram and all I could think was...WHO IS THE DADDY???? She wasn't even trying either...it sometimes isn't fair BUT....it will come!
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June 24th, 2013, 09:26 AM
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I know it will and whats odd is that it's really bugging me now. Normally it wouldn't! Maybe it was just the rapid announcements that got to me.
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June 24th, 2013, 09:37 AM
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(((hugs)))
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June 24th, 2013, 09:45 AM
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Thanks

Venting definitely helped. I'm remembering what my husband said, it will happen for us. It will. I know it will. I just wish it was now
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June 24th, 2013, 09:51 AM
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I totally understand what you are saying
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June 24th, 2013, 09:59 AM
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You are not alone...

Can I join and make it a party for 2?
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June 24th, 2013, 10:13 AM
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(((Hugs))) I know what you mean. It's getting to where I don't want to go anywhere or open Facebook. It is hard to stay positive. to you
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June 24th, 2013, 10:26 AM
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Umm! Better make it a table for 3! I am definetly in this pitty party. So sad and depressed and feeling sorry for myself. I will get passed it, its just harder some days than others.
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June 24th, 2013, 10:35 AM
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There is definitely room at the table!
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June 24th, 2013, 01:39 PM
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Make it 4. I just don't get how we are all trying and I have a friend and a co-worker that just said they are pregnant and they are oops babies. Really??? Why is it so easy for them??
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June 24th, 2013, 01:53 PM
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Can I join? My neighbor's daughter who's 19 found out she's pregnant a few weeks ago. She's unemployed, immature, and her bf is good for nothing. Super. And it does seem like someone is announcing their pregnancy on fb or having their baby.
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June 24th, 2013, 02:15 PM
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Yeah I definitely agree. Everyone around me is pregnant or just had their baby. And only one out of probably about 20 people actually tried to get pregnant, is a very stable relationship, with a job. None of the others, as far as I know, we planned. And if they were these people should not be having babies! Where is my little precious bundle.
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June 24th, 2013, 02:24 PM
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Everyone I know is a mixed bag. One is stable, it's her 4th, she was trying. Another is stable, 3rd, wasn't trying. Another isn't stable, 2nd and just broke up with the dad. A few others weren't trying either.

I'm happy for them, I am. Just wish I could be saying it as well.
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June 24th, 2013, 04:13 PM
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Pull me up a chair! Just had a visit from a four month old at work today and my coworker is bringing is 3 month old to work tomorow. And everyone turns to me to ask "when are you having kids Tania?" Blahhhh really?! If they only knew!
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June 24th, 2013, 05:31 PM
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DH and I can completely relate to how you are feeling. We have been trying for since our wedding night a year ago and have yet to get a BFP. I think the hardest part of seeing everyone around me get theirs is, like you said, most of them arent even trying.
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June 25th, 2013, 11:50 AM
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I know how you feel. It's frustrating when other people get pregnant around you. A few years ago, when it was hitting me and DH that we wanted another kid, it was hard. I swear everyone I knew was having babies. Only one person I know is pregnant right now and I'm happy for her. Although I'd love for it to be my turn again.
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