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August 4th, 2013, 09:12 AM
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I thought I had ovulated because I had a temp jump yesterday. Well this morning my temp was back down... So that was a no go. We BD every single night because I feel like I could O any day. I finished Clomid on CD7 and now I'm on CD19 without Oing yet. I'm so scared it won't work and I'm really depending on this ;(
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Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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August 4th, 2013, 10:12 AM
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You may have O'd today, hang in there! I am in the same boat as you, keep thinking i am going to O any day now and waiting on those 3 elevated temps like my life depends on it!! Its tough but don't lose hope just yet xx
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August 4th, 2013, 10:25 AM
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Don't lose hope! I'm on CD26 and have not yet O'ed. Last cycle I was excited to O on CD20 which is early for me but no such luck this cycle . Try to hang in there and not stress yourself out. Some ppl just have longer cycles! I am sure Clomid will work for u after all, u did have periods before the pill!
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August 4th, 2013, 10:57 AM
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Thank you ladies. I'm just so nervous. I know for a fact I ovulated for 6 years before I started BCP because I always got a period every 30-32 days... Never missed! I just don't understand why my body can't figure it out now. I just knew clomid would jump start it. I'm so anxious and I'm sure that's not helping.
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Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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August 4th, 2013, 11:14 AM
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I have the EXACT same problem as you. I have been diagnosed with PCOS now which accounts for not ovulating but i definitely did before BCP. ugh!

Stress definately delays ovulation, I am huge worry wort and constantly struggle to just let it all goooooo.
Get yourself out of this nervousness and tell yourself it WILL happen. You WILL ovulate and there is absolutely nothing that is going to come in your way!! You will be amazed at the power of positive thinking

Hang in there and i will definitely keep my fingers and toes crossed that this is your cycle! (and mine!)

PS: We may just be cycle buddies if you and I o'ed today!
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August 4th, 2013, 11:18 AM
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Hang in there! I am on CD 20 and while I am not temp charting (because of my inability to sleep longer than 2 hour intervals) I keep getting misleading OPK tests...a darker line one day, a faint almost nonexistent one the next. I should be O'ing soon too if I haven't already. Having longer cycles can be frustrating when you are TTC!
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August 4th, 2013, 11:21 AM
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Yes definitely frustrating! I don't even know about my OPKs. They are always pretty dark but not positive but I don't test at regular intervals either.

Tmi Update! I just checked my CM and it's VERY egg white and stretchy! And there was a single thread of red blood mixed in the EWCM. Anyone had this before??
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Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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August 4th, 2013, 11:26 AM
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Could definitely be O related. Many women see a little spotting at O
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August 4th, 2013, 01:31 PM
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I hope that's what it is!
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Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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August 5th, 2013, 06:59 AM
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Like I said before, don't give up hope!!

I didn't O until CD25 on clomid, and still BFP. Sometimes it makes you O late. Keep positive!! I know it will happen for you.
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August 5th, 2013, 11:52 AM
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I see you had a temp rise... fingers crossed that it keeps rising!
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August 5th, 2013, 12:38 PM
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I see you had a temp rise... fingers crossed that it keeps rising!
I hope so, but it's still in my pre O temp range. Thank you for checking on me!
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Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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August 5th, 2013, 01:39 PM
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I have seen charts where the temp spikes but is still within pre-o range and then spikes again even higher the next day... Hang in there!
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August 5th, 2013, 01:48 PM
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I have seen charts where the temp spikes but is still within pre-o range and then spikes again even higher the next day... Hang in there!
I hope that happens!!
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Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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August 5th, 2013, 03:55 PM
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Clomid will cause you to O pretty late so I would not fret You want your eggies mature enough so when the time comes you get a nice sized one. I would def suggest going in for monitoring while on Clomid. The ultrasounds along with a trigger shot do wonders and there is no second guessing
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August 5th, 2013, 04:32 PM
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Clomid will cause you to O pretty late so I would not fret You want your eggies mature enough so when the time comes you get a nice sized one. I would def suggest going in for monitoring while on Clomid. The ultrasounds along with a trigger shot do wonders and there is no second guessing
If I have to do this again, I may ask my dr about that. But I really hope I O from this round and won't need it anymore!
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Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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August 5th, 2013, 06:28 PM
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I cannot wait to see how it turns out!!
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August 6th, 2013, 08:51 AM
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I hope everything turns out well. I may be prego and I have been trying for 2 years but keep miscarring
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August 6th, 2013, 09:24 AM
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Hang in there! Hoping you get that bfp this cycle!!
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