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We have a 2 year old girl, and DH isn't partial to boy or girl, he just wants one more... Same with me. A plus to having another girl is that we could use all of DD's clothes that I have been holding on to since she was born lol
I have a daughter from previous relationship....so we kinda want a boy so we have one of each BUT think we are both a bit scared bc DH got in lots of trouble in his teen and early twenty years A LOT OF TROUBLE!!!! So think we both fear our boy will end up the same way no matter how good of parents we are....I mean DH was from an upper middle class family...very nice home...wonderfully loving mother....ok father and son relationship from what I gather ( his parents did divorce during all the trouble he was in..think he fears he caused their 20 some odd year marriage to fail) overall he had a really good life....much better than mine (I had a wonderful mommy too though...just didn't live in quite so much luxury as my mom was a single mom) Soooooo sometimes when we think boy we think ohhhhhh NO.....lol but we will see...and which ever we get will be fine...he said he used to always kinda want a daughter but now he has one bc he adore my daughter from previous relationship... I guess whatever we get is what we get but I do kinda want a boy in spite of fear lol
This is basically my feeling too, except it was seeing my brother be a little hellian as a teen (well, he still is kind of), that makes me nervous about a boy. On the one hand I do want to experience having a boy but my brother was so much trouble (and as a 23 y/o is still very immature). Of course the number 1 goal is a happy, healthy, full term baby but aside from that if I'm completely honest I have a slight preference for another girl. Plus I'm very close with my sister and would love for DD to have that as well. Another plus would be that we could reuse a lot of the stuff from DD if we have another girl. I do have a strong feeling we will have a boy next though because that is how it is in my family. First girl, then either 1 or 2 boys after that.