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  #1  
August 22nd, 2013, 04:23 AM
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I'm so so so so bummed. I took an answer test this morning and stark white bfn. I am out of Internet cheapies so I can't use the same test that gave me that faint positive. Looks like I got a false positive. I went yesterday for blood draw so I guess we will hear later today what that shows. I guess it's possible that I could have had a chemical pregnancy but most likely probably just a false positive. My heart is in a million pieces right now. Next month I'm not testing till I miss my period.

Dh is asleep next to me and I just need a huge hug.
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August 22nd, 2013, 04:44 AM
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Do not lose hope just yet Many times the internet cheapies are WAY WAY more sensitive than the FRER or Answer... the internet cheapies were still picking up my HCG trigger shot a couple of cycles ago when Answer and FRER were stark white KUP on the beta!!
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August 22nd, 2013, 05:16 AM
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Fingers crossed!
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August 22nd, 2013, 05:24 AM
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Your beta results might tell you different!

Still have hope for you!
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August 22nd, 2013, 06:10 AM
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Thank you! I cried all the way to work and mmy best friend told me to get over it and suck it up that I will live. I'm heartbroken so far and that added insult to injury. I swear some people just don't know how lucky they are lucky enough to have the children they have and the struggle many face.

I know whatever it is God has me, but it doesn't take away the heartbreak. I hope you all are right about the beta because I've had three light positive IC over the course of three days , I am 12 dpo now and I thought for sure a regular test would show up by now.

Thank you all! It means more than you think
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August 22nd, 2013, 06:58 AM
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I am so sorry. Yesterday's test looked so promising. FX'd that your blood work yeilds a more promising answer.
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August 22nd, 2013, 07:42 AM
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I am so sorry. Yesterday's test looked so good. Hopefully the beta will be good. Fingers crossed for you.
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August 22nd, 2013, 09:16 AM
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I was 12 dpo yesterday and had no positive. But don't give up yet!

Also I'd like to give your friend a good talking to. That is not something you say to a person at any point in time. Especially when they need support.
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August 22nd, 2013, 09:59 AM
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Thank you all for your encouragement. I got the call from the nurse and it is negative. Came back "less than 2" . not sure what that means but it definitely means negative. I guess I will be staying here a bit longer and I am trying to stay strong and confident and I feel very toyed with by these positives. And for as light as it was to show on here, it was even darker in person. I don't think next month I will test until I am late. Well I say that now lol. But definitely not the IC ones.

Thank you soo much. I really appreciate it.
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August 22nd, 2013, 12:58 PM
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August 22nd, 2013, 07:05 PM
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August 22nd, 2013, 10:36 PM
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Oh no....... {{{{{{♥HUGS♥}}}}}}
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August 23rd, 2013, 10:05 AM
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last month I had an internet cheapie screw with me. It really broke my spirits. I am still upset by it but I am starting to move past it and am working on this cycle. I know how much it sucks, we all do. That's why being here is the best place to be. All these ladies understand how hard it is and how hard we try to get what so many women come by easily or by accident.
I don't talk about TTC with really anyone except SO and my on BFF in real life. Even my BFF doesn't it sometimes. Nobody understands like the ladies on here.

Big ((hugs)) girl. I really hope you get your BFP really soon!!
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August 23rd, 2013, 10:28 AM
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Thank you all for the hugs and support.

Sam, that you for your kind words. I really don't think I will get the cheapies any more. This stress was unlike anything I have ever felt ! I am sorry you went through similar. I am positive that we will get our babies soon!
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August 23rd, 2013, 01:31 PM
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August 24th, 2013, 12:33 PM
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((hugs)) so sorry
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August 24th, 2013, 02:34 PM
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August 24th, 2013, 03:07 PM
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I have had ic tests give me false pos before...but not 3 in a row. I'm sooooooooooo very sorry
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August 24th, 2013, 10:38 PM
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August 26th, 2013, 09:32 AM
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Thank you all for the hugs and support.

Sam, that you for your kind words. I really don't think I will get the cheapies any more. This stress was unlike anything I have ever felt ! I am sorry you went through similar. I am positive that we will get our babies soon!
Yeah I am just not going to buy any more cheapies. I will just wait till I am late and deal with it then, go buy some at the store or something. It sucked so much. But now that I have moved past it, I am feeling so hopeful for this cycle. We basically did the SMEP plan without trying to this month. I O'd yesterday so if we DTD tonight tmrw, take a break, and the one more time I think our chance are really good. So Fxd for both of us this cycle. I hope we both get our little one very soon!! Maybe those stupid fake lines are just preparing us for the real thing.
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