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October 11th, 2013, 04:51 AM
KMO81's Avatar Krista
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: Minnesota
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Another BFN on a FRER today....I think maybe that first one was some kind of indent or something..it did show up right away, but I am not convinced it had any color to it. I looked back at old charts from past pregnancies and the earliest I've gotten a BFP was 13DPO, so I'm still holding on to hope...but being honest, I'm feeling a little bummed.....really thought by now I'd see SOME kind of line on a FRER.
-Krista Olson
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October 11th, 2013, 05:05 AM
Decemberhill's Avatar Nicole
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Boo! I'm sorry, Krista. Hopefully tomorrow is the day!

Mom to Ava (8) and Layla (6). Bennett Scott due May 19, 2014!
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October 11th, 2013, 05:19 AM
meld10's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Hang in there Krista your chart is still looking good and tomorrow is 13dpo! Sending you for that BFP to show up!

6/12/2013- 8 weeks
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October 11th, 2013, 05:26 AM
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aww...well your chart looks good! hoping tomorrow is the day for you!!

7/12/13 @6w

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October 11th, 2013, 05:28 AM
LivyLove's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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There is still hope but I know how it feels. I got a BFN at 9DPO and logic says you probably wouldnt get a + so early but knowing how the song and dance has gone before I'm preparing myself for this cycle to be a bust.
Married to the love of my life since 12/21/12
TTC #3 since Oct 2012
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October 11th, 2013, 06:25 AM
Mega Super Mommy
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*hugs* to you! Sending lots of baby dust your way!!

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October 11th, 2013, 10:57 AM
Mega Super Mommy
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Don't lose the hope just yet it is not over until af shows. I have my fx that you get your in the next few days.

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October 11th, 2013, 12:12 PM
Mega Super Mommy
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Location: West Virginia
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for a bfp soon.
Cautiously expecting our little jellybean 👣

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October 11th, 2013, 12:13 PM
*Leah*'s Avatar TTC the newfashioned way
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You're not out until the witch shows...everything crossed for you!!
TTC#1 since 10/2006, 5 failed IUI's, 1st IVF successful BFP!! Baby Girl 2/2011
TTC#2 BFP 9/2011, Natural Pregnancy! 3/30/12 M/C'd on 5/15/12 (9 weeks)
IVF#2 BFP 4/2013 M/C 6/2/13 (8 weeks)
FET #1 BFP 8/2013 - Chemical Pregnancy
IVF #3 - Retrieval Oct 31st, Txferred 2 on 5d - a Blast and Morula - Chemical Pregnancy
IVF #4 - ER scheduled for 4/4/14 retrieved 4 eggs. Txferred 3 embryos 4/7/14!....BFN...NOW WHAT?
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October 11th, 2013, 12:39 PM
Belita's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry. I had that same thing happen to me last cycle. We were NTNP and I had a super faint line that showed up within the time period (it did have color) but the next day and every time thereafter were negative. Some FRERs are super sensitive and you could have had a test pick up as little hCG as 7, but then maybe these tests aren't as sensitive since they're only rated for 25? Give it a few more days. You're not out until the witch shows!

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October 11th, 2013, 01:58 PM
tiffany&co.'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I'm really sorry. I've been there and it sucks. I hope you get your BFP soon.

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October 11th, 2013, 02:16 PM
Knewton's Avatar Super Mommy
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Posts: 549
I took a FRER with my daughter when I was like 14 dpo and got a BFN!!! 4 days later I still had no period, took and EPT and it was blaring positive. Dont give up yet
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October 11th, 2013, 02:32 PM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Feb 2013
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Don't give up, there's still hope! Thinking of you
Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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