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i originally thought i o'd on cd14, and had spotting at cd20 that i read as ib. if that were true, im now two or three days late.
i havent tested since my bfn on thursday. but thats because my body was telling me i was gearing up for o, not for af.
my cervix was high at soft at cd14, then lowered and got firm for about a week and a half, and then it went back up, and softened again. ....its still high now, at cd30. i keep feeling like af is here, but its just normal cm.
dh and i keep dtd, figuring everyone on here was right, and that this cycle is just weird bc its pp and im still bfing. but im in the same stupid boat i was in last month, not knowing when/if i od, if i should be expecting af, and whether or not im pregnant.
i want to be done wasting tests though, so im going to try and hold out another two weeks to test, if af doesnt show in the meantime.
Aghh...I would be frustrated too!! Did you have ewcm in this cycle? O pains? I don't know if you mentioned in another thread, but is this your first cycle after the baby? Well, I hope your body gives you some answers soon!! The cramps & cm sound promising!
yeah, this is my first cycle. i was really under the impression that things would get easier to figure out after my first af, because i'd at least know i ovulated. but i still have no idea how long this cycle is going to be!
i had ewcm around cd11 or 12 through cd15, and again right now, and for the last few days. i don't usually get o pains, at least that i've ever noticed. but i'm crampy today, and have been off and on for at least a few days now. ...so annoying.
i dont know, aside from not really wanting to get into that, my little one isn't doing so well with sleeping through the night lately. i think it's partly because he's finally getting teeth breaking through, and partly because he's starting to develop a fear of the dark. poor thing.
i also had read that temping wasn't reliable when you're bfing?