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I see many of you ladies are BD'ing everyday, some twice a day.. I just want to ask you how long it takes for your SO to actually ejaculate?!
I ask this because if DF and I BD every night, by the 3rd or 4th night he says he's "empty" and it takes FOREVER!! Sometimes we will actually just have to call it a night, because he keeps saying he's almost there but nothing happens.
I guess it just concerns me, he's still young (22) so I figure it's only going to get worse from here!
I have been thinking of sending him for an SA as well, I mean with all my infertility issues I would hate to struggle with this for another 2 years and then only find out he has an issue too, know what I mean?
DH is like that too. I can usually tell if he's been messing around by himself (masturbating!) because it takes him longer to finish when we DTD. Sometimes he says that he will do that so that he DOES last longer, because if we go a couple days without...he's like the minute man. HAHA!
Same goes for if we've been really active with DTD everyday. Like this week, we took Monday night off, but we did Tuesday night, and twice yesterday. By the second time yesterday he was taking a while. Totally fine with me because then I get to actually come to orgasm and enjoy sex a little bit! LOL
But I think its normal for them to have less cum if they have been having sex every day, or several times in one day. It takes a while for the body to replenish it. Hope this helps!
Hubby and I dtd between 1-3 times a day out of that he ejaculates 1-2 times once a week sometimes we wait a day but not unless I'm on my period. He is 28 and we both have a high sex drive (me being horny almost 24/7 and he keeps up if not wants more) before we know I am supposed to ovulate we take a 24 hot break just to refresh his little soldiers.