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  #1  
April 18th, 2014, 04:59 PM
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Well, after 12 months of TTC with no luck, I finally got a positive pregnancy test. Went to the doctor because I've been spotting. He ran betas wednesday and today and my numbers went from 359 to 129. I'm devestated. It is so not fair to wait 12 months only to have it taken away in just two days. Here are my tests. Cheapies from Wednesday, yesterday and today. Answer from this morning.
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BFP: 4/19/14 Miscarried at 5 weeks April 2014
7/14: Started with RE. Clomid 100 mg + trigger = BFN and 29mm cyst
8/14: On birth control for cyst
9/14: Femara 5 mg + trigger = BFN
10/15/14: HSG. Possible polyps and blocked tubes. Cycle cancelled for surgery.
11/20/14: Lap and hysteroscopy reveals tubes are clear, no polyps but found endo on uterus and ovaries. Removed.


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April 18th, 2014, 05:18 PM
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So sorry
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April 18th, 2014, 05:35 PM
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I'm so sorry
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April 18th, 2014, 05:49 PM
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I am so so sorry! I will be thinking of you and your family.
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April 18th, 2014, 07:54 PM
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Ugh, I am so so sorry!
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April 18th, 2014, 09:56 PM
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I'm so sorry and it really is unfair.

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April 18th, 2014, 11:16 PM
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I am so sorry to hear this. Are they going to run anotherBeta? I know they can sometimes fluctuate..
I TTC for about seven months, got pg and he was born
still at 36w 4d. So if you need some one to talk to,
I understand your pain.
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April 18th, 2014, 11:22 PM
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I'm sorry I hope the numbers are wrong, and are higher.
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April 19th, 2014, 04:28 AM
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I am so sorry I tried for a little over 2 yrs and FINALLY got pg in Jan of this year. I only knew that I was pg for 1 day before finding out that I had m/c my baby.... I am really sorry that you are going through this!! You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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April 19th, 2014, 06:22 AM
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Thank you ladies. Am I crazy or is today's test darker? It is the one on the bottom.

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Me: 32 DH: 36 DS: 2TTC #2 since May 2013
BFP: 4/19/14 Miscarried at 5 weeks April 2014
7/14: Started with RE. Clomid 100 mg + trigger = BFN and 29mm cyst
8/14: On birth control for cyst
9/14: Femara 5 mg + trigger = BFN
10/15/14: HSG. Possible polyps and blocked tubes. Cycle cancelled for surgery.
11/20/14: Lap and hysteroscopy reveals tubes are clear, no polyps but found endo on uterus and ovaries. Removed.


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April 19th, 2014, 11:55 AM
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It's looks darker to me. Are you getting another beta?
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August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
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April 19th, 2014, 11:59 AM
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I'm so sorry.
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April 19th, 2014, 12:09 PM
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He told me to come back Friday for a recheck to make Sure they had dropped to zero. If my tests keep getting darker and I haven't started bleeding, I'm going to call him Monday and ask if they can do another beta then. This is so weird...
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Me: 32 DH: 36 DS: 2TTC #2 since May 2013
BFP: 4/19/14 Miscarried at 5 weeks April 2014
7/14: Started with RE. Clomid 100 mg + trigger = BFN and 29mm cyst
8/14: On birth control for cyst
9/14: Femara 5 mg + trigger = BFN
10/15/14: HSG. Possible polyps and blocked tubes. Cycle cancelled for surgery.
11/20/14: Lap and hysteroscopy reveals tubes are clear, no polyps but found endo on uterus and ovaries. Removed.


My chart: My Ovulation Chart
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April 19th, 2014, 02:47 PM
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Maybe you were pregnant with twins? I think I remember someone posting and thought they miscarried and they ended up still pregnant.

The test today definitely looks darker.
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April 19th, 2014, 03:08 PM
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Maybe you lost a twin.
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April 21st, 2014, 06:23 AM
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I'm so sorry. I hope the next betas come back as going up instead of down. I can understand how you feeling having gone through two m/cs in the past year. You try so hard for that baby just to be taken away is cruel and heartbreaking. :hugs:
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April 21st, 2014, 06:29 AM
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so sorry to hear this. i had a miscarriage last july and havent been able to get pregnant since. its been a long hard struggle. i feel your pain but i think you should keep getting betas done... the test does look darker.
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April 21st, 2014, 06:51 AM
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I'm sorry. I agree with the PP, I would have another beta done. It's possible it was twins like the other ladies have said. I had a M/C Jan.2013 and have been scared to TTC untill Feb of this year.Good luck sweetie, keep us posted.
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April 21st, 2014, 06:58 AM
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It could certainly be vanishing twin syndrome, ladies who lose a twin will see a drop or slowing of betas on for it to shoot back up from the surviving twin.
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April 21st, 2014, 01:22 PM
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I'm sorry!! Hope you get good news about a possible twin loss or wrong beta numbers
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