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July 10th, 2014, 10:35 AM
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What do you when you hit a slump in the bedroom? Hubby and I love each other but, as always, trying to conceive has kind of turned me off from trying. So weird how that happens. I'm in my waiting stage so not waiting to Ovulate but not too hopeful for this cycle. I'm just not feeling it this month... Need some sexy tips! lol
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July 11th, 2014, 12:26 AM
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I know what you mean (in a way). TTC makes it feel more like a chore, than fun. IDK how conservative you are in the bedroom, but new toys, positions, or even sex card games/etc, can definitely keep things more fun, and keep the pressure of ttc away. DH works nights, so he's always exhausted when he gets home... but, if I surprise him with lingerie instead of my normal tank/shorts, it tends to get him in the mood. I also spend a lot of time thinking of what I want to do with him I swear, I think about sex more than he does. /sigh

I'm the one that's always in the mood but when I'm focused on the fact that we're ttc, I get discouraged and uninterested. Lately we've been so busy with life, that I haven't had time to focus on our loss, or the fact that we're ttc again. I'm sure once everything from our move has settled into place, I'll be back to stressing about the ttc again.
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July 11th, 2014, 07:45 PM
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we're doing okay right now...we just try to go with the flow and not "plan" for it. I keep him out of the loop on what time of the month it is which takes pressure off of him and so he doesn't feel like he's only there for the sperm, hehe.
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