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My girlfriend told me that if I don't elevate my pelvis after having sex that the sperm will just leak out???? Do I have to do this everytime???? I thought just lying still for 10-15 minutes was good enough???
I have to agree. I can understand laying there a little while, but not the whole elevation thing. If they're meant to get there, they will get there if you are standing up... Have faith in the lil swimmers
well with my first 2 i never did that but this time around lol i lay with a pillow under by butt for at least 20 minutes then i stay laying in bed or wherever for like another 1/2hour im so willing to try anything tho ill probably lay with my legs up over my head if you said it would increase my chances
<center>Kim</center><center>mommy to Blake (10/6/95) and Cynthia (4/13/98) </center>
Yeah, I elevate with a pillow under my butt too. But like others said - it isn't necessary. I just want to do everything I can. What I have heard though that does make a difference is if you can orgasm. The say the contractions of the orgasm can help pull the sperm up to the egg faster. Or something like that. I have also been told that positive thinking can help. I have been told to "visualize" the sperm penetrating the egg for a few minutes. At this point I will try just about anything.