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im sorry but i just need to vent i have just been going crazy over this...
i help my mom take care of 3 kids during the day 2 are sisters... now this person drops them off bright and early and picks them up late in the evening ..and she always pawning them off onto other family members and friends id be surprised if she actually spent an hour a day with them. And she doesnt care for them ... like now its been 3 days since they had a bath and my mom was the one that bathed them. the older girl is still wearing the underwear i put on her. they are always dirty like black feet and it drives me nuts about 4 weeks ago maybe 5 the both had lice 1 and 3are their ages now i understand this happens but it wasnt the first time and she did treat their hair nce but you are supposed to treat it then retreat in 7 -8 days she never did .. she doesnt even comb their hair they still have dead nits its been a month HELLO.
now what gets me is people like her have children and continue to have children when someone like me who would love and care for a baby cant seem to get pregnant again. I know i should feel blessed that i do have 2 beautiful well cared for children .. but now that im ttc again and not having any luck these things seem to drive me insane why can thye keep having kids and i cant ??!!! its not fair
im sorry im just getting so discouraged . i didnt think ttc would be this hard
<center>Kim</center><center>mommy to Blake (10/6/95) and Cynthia (4/13/98) </center>
I totally know where you're coming from. It isn't fair. What keeps me going is that I just have to believe that everything happens for a reason. I'll never know what that reason is, but I just believe it.
I totally know how you are feeling about this situation girl!
It drives me crazy too. People getting preggo and didn't want it in the first place and then don't take care of the kid(s). How is it anyway that we can BD and BD and BD....lay there for what seems like hours....count days, check CM, take BBTs, OPKs.....and still no BFP....and then along comes someone who....BDs with whoever...goes about their business and and 2wks later...boom....BFP....then...doesn't take care of herself for the whole pregnancy...has a healthy baby despite....and then.....lets someone else care for them and then of course BAM ---PREGGO AGAIN a couple of months later. Just doesn't seem fair to me either.