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May 5th, 2005, 11:12 AM
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I went and seen my doctor today. I had 10 tubes of blood drawn. She is going to see why I keep having early m/c's. She is testing me for everything that causes miscarriages. I need some answers.

I told her I was to afraid to even TTC again, she told me not to be. But I am, I will feel a lot better knowing what is wrong with me.

Its going to be a rough month. Sunday is mother's day, then My birthday is this month. But I have nothing to celebrate.

Going through 2 m/c's has killed me. I am emotionally drained.

I don't blame God, but I was sure mad at him yesterday. I love God, but I am only human . I know all these bad things are happening for a reason, and one day it'll turn into good. But right now, I am suffering.

I also found out this week, that I don't get hired back next school semester. so I also lost my job this week- for next year.

But as of now, I am not TTC again for a long time. Until I know what is wrong with me. I am not even emotionally stable to think about getting pregnant right now.

I'll let you all know what my blood results are.
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May 5th, 2005, 11:16 AM
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I am sorry things are going so badly for you. I'll keep you in my prayers.
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May 5th, 2005, 11:19 AM
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I am praying for you Tabitha!!!
Hugs and kisses!!!!
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May 5th, 2005, 11:19 AM
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I hope you get the answers you need from your DR. I am sorry you are hurting and I hope you start feeling better really soon! I just m/c's last week, for the first time, so I KNOW how you are feeling. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk! Hang in there...we are all thinking of you!
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May 5th, 2005, 11:20 AM
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so sorry you are upset..you have a right to be. hope you feel better soon
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May 5th, 2005, 11:21 AM
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I hope you find out something soon. I'm so sorry that you are going through this!!!

I will be praying for you!!

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May 5th, 2005, 11:22 AM
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Sorry everything is hitting you at once. You are in my prayers.
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May 5th, 2005, 11:31 AM
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Thanks for having the strength to come back and give us an update. I hope your doctor will have some answers for you. Please keep us posted on your results. Take care of yourself.
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May 5th, 2005, 11:36 AM
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I hope you find some answers very soon. I'll be thinking of you.
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May 5th, 2005, 12:44 PM
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keeping you in my prayers and hope that it will all work itself out
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May 5th, 2005, 01:14 PM
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Tabitha,

I am glad that you updated us.. I really hope that the doc finds out what is causing the mc's. At least she is being proactive and finding out now and not waiting. I am sorry that you lost your job. I watched oprah yesterday and Brooke shields was on talking about her battle with postpartum depression, how she wanted to commit suicide, and how bad her life was she said this:

"Down came the Rain" and "Out came the sun and dried up all the rain".....


You are in the middle of a rain storm. Your sunshine will come soon, just hang in there. Gather all your support systems. I can totally understand your anger/upset at God. I think that I have had many days where I have said: "Why are you doing this to me God" and in the end it all worked out. It did not work out immediately but in the end I have looked back and said "oh ok... that is why" I wish you peace and comfort. Hang in there-

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May 5th, 2005, 01:25 PM
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I hope the doctor finds out what the problem is soon so you can begin ttc again without the fear of miscarriage. Please take care of yourself. I know the docs will have an answer for you and be able to give you a sticky bfp soon. Good luck!
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May 5th, 2005, 01:31 PM
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hi tabitha!
im so sorry to hear what you are going through right now, and i also understand why you are angry with God - he does work in mysterious ways, but i know he will give you all your answers (and a BFP) when he feels your time is right.
For now, hang on to your faith and look after yourself.
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May 5th, 2005, 03:25 PM
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Hugs to you, Tabatha! Hope you get some answers soon.
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May 5th, 2005, 03:28 PM
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Tabatha, I know you are upset and you have every right to be. But know that we are always here for you when you need us. Take care.
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May 5th, 2005, 03:56 PM
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I wish I could do something to take away your pain. I can keep you in my prayers and hope that helps. We care.
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