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Ok, here are the basic facts around what happened with me and my bf of 4 years:
1) I am not on the pill
2) We were having sex on the 22nd day after I had started my last period (I don't think I would have been in peak ovulating stage at that point, but who knows)
3) (Sorry to get graphic), but we were having sex in an almost doggy style position, but I was lying down flat on my stomach and we was on top coming down from behind.
4) Since my legs were pressed together, this is how the condom ended up "slipping off". We both noticed that the pleasure was increasing (I wonder why!!) and after a bit he pulled out to change positions and it was then that we realised the condom had slipped off in me. We were probably having sex without the condom for about 10 minutes.
5) I've been in this position once before with him, so I knew how to get it out. The problem last time was that he came inside me whereas this time he hadn't yet.. And last time I took the morning after pill (I was a lot younger, and while I was still with the same guy I am with now, we weren't really ready whereas now we would be more prepared to have a baby.)
What would be the chance that I could get pregnant?
My period is due right now, and I am wondering when the best time to complete a pregnancy test would be. I have very very MILD PCOS, so my periods are sometimes irregular (but haven't been of late)....
What are your opinions?
(P.S. No we were not trying for the baby, but even though I am personally a pro-choice person, I would personally never want an abortion, so we would be happy and excited for the prospective baby even though it was not planned!)
Yeah sounds like a slim chance. I know they talk of precum and stuff but if he didn't ejaculate inside you then chances are very good that none would have made it to an egg, even if you happened to be ovulating. Chances are only 20% each cycle at most for a perfectly fertile couple who are actively TTC at the right time.
If you had been ovulating, then your period wouldn't come til approx. 14 days after then. So, the best time to test would be approx. 2 weeks after the sex.
The most you can do is wait and see if AF comes. It's very likely that you didn't get pregnant from this one time.
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