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  #1  
December 28th, 2011, 02:58 PM
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Well im still getting BFNs. I thought i saw a slight line but no such luck. Im pretty sure the first of my FRER just had some weird indent where i was imagining seeing a BFP. Now after two more tests it has become quiet clear that staring at tests for a long perion of time is not good for me. lol it turns me in to the crazy invisible line seeing lady. Anyway so im just frustrated now. I just want something. Ill take it either way.

Dear body, this is the one and only time i will ever ask you to send AF my way. K thanks.

I'm thinking of getting on BC next cycle sense everyone thinks its such a fab idea for us to wait a while before trying again and maybe it is the right thing to do because I cant stand another M/C but why would waiting a while keep it from happening again. blah! seriously confused here! what do you ladies think?
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December 28th, 2011, 04:23 PM
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Well, crazy invisible line seeing lady--you are in good company I can see lines on nearly any test I see...lol. In all seriousness, though, I know it's frustrating and I'm sorry.

I don't know why waiting would make a difference one way or the other. Has your doctor recommended waiting? I personally think that if you want to wait, then just take a break from trying (no temping, no OPKs, etc). I don't see how BC would help and it might just make it harder to get pregnant when you are ready to try again.

Just my two cents. Good luck!
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December 28th, 2011, 05:05 PM
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Right behind you! I am 14 dpo today and getting BFNs. I, also, have spent waaaay too much time staring at white tests the last week...so at least you are in good company? LOL
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December 28th, 2011, 08:25 PM
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Lol at least im not alome. Tganks ladies. my ob did recommend waiting 3 cycles after m/c Idk Why but ugh I'm just tired you know. Weve been doing all this stuff for 6 months now and i know a lot of people ttc a healthy baby for a lot longer but I just want a healthy happy long 9 in my near future. Ok end of pity Party. Anyway jerks hoping for bfps for everyone
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December 28th, 2011, 08:44 PM
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Ah, I see. Waiting for a cycle or two after a miscarriage is pretty standard advice to give your body time to recover. I didn't realize that you were in the cycle following a miscarriage, although 3 months seems kinda long to have to wait. I've had miscarriages at 7+ weeks and 5 weeks and in each instance, I was told to wait one cycle before trying again.

Not to be a bad influence or anything, but my daughter was conceived 2 weeks after one of those miscarriages
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December 29th, 2011, 03:47 AM
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My obgyn recommended waiting 3 months after our m/c as well. Not sure why so long but I almost feel like it would have been better to try again right away since now it's been way over a year and we just can't manage to get pregnant again.

Good luck and I really hope you get your sticky bean soon!!
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December 29th, 2011, 06:21 AM
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Yeah my ob also recommended me to wait 3cycles. We tried right after my m/c nothing then we tried in november nothing, now here we are in our second cycle I have a few more days until I test. If we don't get a bfp this time, then we will try in January.
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December 29th, 2011, 06:02 PM
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Ditto to the crazy invisible line lady! That was me today in the bathroom staring at nothing for about 5 minutes.
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December 29th, 2011, 06:32 PM
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I'm glad to see I'm not the only person looking at tests longer than the directions say...it got so bad one night that I even went back and pulled one out of the garbage from earlier that morning just to make sure it hadn't changed to a positive over a ten hour period....ttc has totally consumed me....its hard to tell ppl to b patient and not stress over it when I'm a total head case about it myself...
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