[luvHim]

Bleeding picked up with some clots and now cramping, so I'm pretty sure I'm losing my little bean. This morning's test was still very positive, but my temp went down some, too.

I honestly don't know if we will try right away or wait a few months. It's been almost a decade since I lost my last baby and I was hoping I wouldn't have to do it again.

I'll probably lurk for a while and stalk some of you whom I'm hoping get bfp's soon.

[strvnwritr]

Oh no, I'm so sorry. Are you going to see the doctor?

[brandi6088]

I'm so sorry again!! We are in the same boat!! if i loose this one i prob wont try again for awhile either =T I cant help but think its all my fault cuz i wasnt doing anything healthy when we concieved, (sense i didnt plan on it happening so soon, not even a month off BC ) ill keep u in my prayers!!!

[luvHim]

Originally Posted by strvnwritr

Oh no, I'm so sorry. Are you going to see the doctor?

No, I probably won't. What were your chemical pregnancies like, Theresa?

[BabyLover]

I'm so sorry for your loss. If you'd like, you should visit Trying to Conceive After Loss. The ladies there are great for support.

[Bekah]

I am so sorry for your loss

[strvnwritr]

Originally Posted by luvHim

No, I probably won't. What were your chemical pregnancies like, Theresa?

Both of my chemical pregnancies came on pretty much like a regular period, maybe a little heavier. It started with spotting and usual AF cramping and continued into a full blown period. I saw the doctor after the second one and had my levels checked, etc. Because it was my second in a row, he plans to put me on progesterone after my next positive test. But if this is your first (or your first in a while), the doctor probably won't do much.

On the other hand, I am an eternal optimist and so I wouldn't give up just yet--especially with a dark line this morning (as a side note, my pregnancy tests got lighter BEFORE I started bleeding). There are women who have period-like bleeding during pregnancy and go on to have healthy babies. Are you planning to keep testing?

I'm keeping you in my prayers!

[aarafko]

[QUOTE=strvnwritr;25510496

On the other hand, I am an eternal optimist and so I wouldn't give up just yet--especially with a dark line this morning (as a side note, my pregnancy tests got lighter BEFORE I started bleeding). There are women who have period-like bleeding during pregnancy and go on to have healthy babies. Are you planning to keep testing?

I'm keeping you in my prayers![/QUOTE]

[Israeljustice]

Originally Posted by strvnwritr

On the other hand, I am an eternal optimist and so I wouldn't give up just yet--especially with a dark line this morning (as a side note, my pregnancy tests got lighter BEFORE I started bleeding). There are women who have period-like bleeding during pregnancy and go on to have healthy babies. Are you planning to keep testing?

I'm keeping you in my prayers!

I was thinking the exact same thing, and your temps did drop but they are still well above your cover line! You're in my thoughts and prayers.

[luvHim]

Thanks, ladies. But I do feel crampy, too... I just wish I knew if it was a sticky bean or not.......I despise the not knowing.

ETA: I didn't start bleeding last night until after dh and I dtd. But this just seems like an awful lot of bleeding and cramping for an irritated cervix. I'm afraid he jarred something loose!

[sweet.hun]

I'm so sorry honey. I would go see a doctor just to make sure. They can watch your HCG levels to see if they are going up and down. Some women just bleed during their pregnancies (my mom did with both my brother and me).

[luvHim]

Thanks, Shasta. I called my midwife and found out the cost to have my hcg levels drawn. However, we're smalltown and they can't do it until Friday. So I will wait and see what happens by then.

[K.A.T]

I'm so sorry hun. I would definitely check your levels with your midwife.

[swtneka]

I'm sorry I will keep u n my prayers

[LauraTTCat42]

I'm sorry keeping you in my T & P's

[shanise.robertson]

im so sorry. keep you in my ts n ps

[luvHim]

Thanks ladies. Spotting stopped again and temp is up again. So who knows...

[AmandaHugNKiss]

Eeep! So, I was reading with my heart in my mouth, feeling it could still be fine... that hope rising when you said it was after dtd... and now, temp back up with spotting stopping!

I'm on tenterhooks!

As much as it would have been preferable to have no bleeding, things do seem to be going well... and, oh, my fingers are so tightly crossed for you. Here's hoping this bean IS a sticky one - I really hope so.

Will carry on looking out for your news - not a stalker, honestly

[strvnwritr]

Originally Posted by luvHim

Thanks ladies. Spotting stopped again and temp is up again. So who knows...

Oh my goodness, your temp today is awesome!!! How are the tests looking?

[*Bobbie*]

With my chemical pregnancies my tests always went negative for a few days before the loss started. With Daniel I bled and clotted so bad I was 100% sure it was over. He is sleeping on me now. Hope you can get some answers soon! Hugs!