[OCBlonde985]

Hi girls me again. No sign of aunt flow still and still having a ton of different symptoms. Am I crazy to be freaking out? I guess I worry more that if Im not menstrating that my fertility is gonna be ruined. I guess that's why I hope I'm indeed pregnant. Do some women never get positive urine tests? Why? I'm an anxiety mess now.

Update 2/7 3:30pm
-Thank you ladies for that info...very reassuring...especially about my fertility in the future...i see my doctor monday afternoon which is just about 3 weeks late so if im still showing no signs of aunt flow im going to ask if i can get blood work...my issue is im under government insurance from my county because i cant get insurance so i have one clinic i can go to and one hospital right now...guess ill have to wait and see...i dont want to keep wasting tests so ive stopped i have one left its an answer ill do later on down the line...i just hate the symptoms and more are arising...is lots of cm a good or bad sign? today ive had white cm/discharge i never have so much...and eating sucks now and stuff...im sensitive to certain foods and smells...i dont want to have my mind all crazy but it def is! Im also stressing about things in life prob not helping...anyway thanks for the advice and info...good luck to you all TTC and ill keep you posted.

[Allie_SMg]

How many days late are you? I've heard of not getting positives up to a month after your missed period. Everyone is different and for some people it could just take longer. It also depends on the sensitivity of your test.

[youngbutready]

See I'm the same right now and as far as my family goes most of us don't show up until the third month of pregnancy for one reason or another. But I'm having a pregnancy symptom festival. I gotten bfn after bfn and now no period. As of yesterday I'm a day late. But what birth control did you use? I had stupid depo...

Sorry the last sentence was added by the cut and paste thingy on my phone. Disregard that last two parts

[strvnwritr]

Originally Posted by OCBlonde985

Hi girls me again. No sign of aunt flow still and still having a ton of different symptoms. Am I crazy to be freaking out? I guess I worry more that if Im not menstrating that my fertility is gonna be ruined. I guess that's why I hope I'm indeed pregnant. Do some women never get positive urine tests? Why? I'm an anxiety mess now.

Try not to worry about your overall fertility. Everyone has an off cycle or two now and then. Sometimes our hormones just do wacky things and it throws everything off.

While there are some women who won't test positive on a urine test until much later, if at all, that's really the rare exception.

Still, though, a blood test would give you a definitive answer.

[OCBlonde985]

I'm two weeks late today.... I was using Lutera 28 pills I used Depo a year ago.

[humnck]

I would call your doc and request a blood test, let them know what is going on, that you are 2 weeks late. My doc office doesn't usually do blood tests until I think a month late, but they made an exception for me...can't hurt to ask