So confused. Have you been threw anything like this?Update BFP!!! <3

mrs.wagner.10 · #1 February 26th, 2012, 07:37 PM

Dh and I desided on Valentines day that we would TTC our 1st. I knew it wouldn't happen that night but everyone I have talked to says the first BD is akward and I wanted to get over that part of it. I have tried for 2 years to get him on the same page with a baby and hes always wanted nothing to do with it. He is now very very excited and is ready for it to happen. (Sorry i am so jumpy LOL ) Anyways I had my AF on Jan 16th, I was suppost to start around the 13th. NEVER happend. I am always regular when it came to AF. So i waited a few days and took a FRER. Came back negative. I waited about 4 days and took the other one came back negative. I thought maybe because they were in my car something happend to them. SO I went to walmart and got a CB it was a BFN I thought ok i took it with MDU so Ill wait a few more days and took the other one with MU it was also a BFN. I don't think I am KU, IF i am great. But I just want AF to get here already so that We can start this. It doesnt help that he asks me almost every night have you started yet. I am just so frustrated I want to pull my hair out.

Has anyone else been threw this? He keeps telling me that he thinks because i want it so bad maybe my body thinks i am but im not and he keeps suggesting that I stay away from boards like this but I just want someone to talk to him about his kinda stuff. I feel like I am disapointing him with everyday that goes by and AF hasnt showed up. TIA

kpete11 · #2 February 26th, 2012, 07:45 PM

how long has it been since u took a test? have u been having any symptoms? some ppl dont get positives until 6 weeks, some even later

mrs.wagner.10 · #3 February 26th, 2012, 07:51 PM

I have had a upset tummy off and on but I had a real bad cold and just ruled it out. My BB's are a little sore when pushed on, and My BD drive is non existant. I havent had any spotting or mucas. Other then that I have had nothing. Its been 4 days since I tested again. I am begining to think I am a freak! LOL

.h00dihoo.this. · #4 February 26th, 2012, 07:52 PM

it's very possible it is ust that.. that you want a baby so badly that your body is stressed out.. you even said your very frustrated, and that can play a part of when AF will start... stressing over things can alter your cycle... but your well over a week now, almost 2 weeks late.. that sounds pretty late to me! it's possible you ovulated very late.. like i said, stress can alter your cycle which means it can cause ovulation to be late as well..

i didn't get my first BFP with my last son until i was 9 days late.. so anything is possible!

mirdeemrlvs · #5 February 26th, 2012, 08:35 PM

Yes, I have had this happen to me many times, but I have a history of pcos and irregular periods. If you have regular periods, it might be from stress, or testing too soon, or you might of ovulated late. I am kind of in the same boat, LMP on Jan 18th, but my periods are NOT regular, so I don't know when I O'd. I wouldn't give up yet. Relax.. and take another hpt in a couple days.

mrs.wagner.10 · #6 February 26th, 2012, 08:51 PM

Thanks. I am just so ready for AF to get here so we can start this. I dont want to start temping yet because of the period and I want to try and get this done pretty fast. I know rushing its not really going to happen but I would love to get KU pretty soon.

mrs.wagner.10 · #7 February 26th, 2012, 10:44 PM

Maybe a little TMI But i need oppions!!! I just noticed that I have a lot more mucus. This stuff is really thick and white. Is this the mucus I need to be looking for? Or could it be AF getting ready to make a apperance??

.h00dihoo.this. · #8 February 26th, 2012, 10:48 PM

supposedly the white creamy cervival mucus is your fertile mucus, but i've also been told that when u feel the most wet and slippery is your most fertile mucus.. so i dont know.. but to play it safe, why not DTD all over the place lol

mrs.wagner.10 · #9 February 26th, 2012, 10:51 PM

HEHE Of course it would be the night that DH and I get into it over work. We both work for walmart. Its a long story, But it threw us into a big fight. I may just have to give him no choice tonight.

Jessy_Ree · #10 February 27th, 2012, 04:35 AM

I know when youre trying so hard to make it happen you can stress your body into thinking you are pregnant when you are indeed not pregnant..I also know what its like trying and trying and month after month getting a BFN..I went through that for 2 yrs before I managed to conceive my son..and another yr and a half before I conceived my second child..I thought for sure when I started trying for my DD it would take forever..I have issues with cysts on my ovaries(not dx with PCOS though) and irregular periods..I wanted so badly to be pregnant and I was so sad when it didnt happen the first month..I started googling natural ways to increase changes of conception..I came across several articles about and herbal supp called vitex..I decided to give it a try..it was known to help regulate womens cycles and make menopause and periods easier..so i gave it a shot..4 weeks after starting it I found out I was pregnant..no idea if it was the herb that did it or the power of suggestion..or if I just got lucky..but I now have a beautiful 5 month old little girl..and somehow am preggers with number 4..LOL..

strvnwritr · #11 February 27th, 2012, 04:39 AM

Since you aren't temping or taking OPKs, you could absolutely be ovulating now. Or last week. Or three days ago. Or tomorrow. Or whenever. So I definitely second the previous poster's advice about DTD all over the place!

Good luck!

MosaicWife · #12 February 27th, 2012, 07:39 AM

Lurking. Sounds like fertile mucus. Fertile mucus looks like raw egg whites and is very stretchy. You can also get it before you get AF. So either way it's a good sign and BDing while having it is the best thing you can do. Good luck.