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I figured Id give you all an update. The 28th I was getting some sharp stabbing pains in my right side. I was spotting too. It went away and I thought nothing of it. Then the pains and spotting came back later but darker blood and a little more volume of it. I ended up in the ER overnight Saturday night/ Sunday morning. They did the vaginal untrasound and checked my HCG. Told me to come back in a few days for a re-check. They said the baby has no heartbeat and all we saw was the gestational sac. They said it looks smaller than what it should me and I would probably miscarry. Sure enough.. My HCG has dropped and over the past week Ive been passing clots. Ive definitely lost this one and we're all very sad. I bleed everyday and I wonder when it will stop. Ill be going back for a check to be sure everything is out and watch my levels. What a terrible end to this great surprise.
Ive not yet been to the OB, I need to make an apmt. Im pretty sure its gone. My HCG was 3164 and then 3 days later was down 388 so Im very sure. Ive been bleeding everyday and passing clots. One looked like some kind of tissue. Its definitely over. I know its not possible that its earlier. I know what date it was. Its terrible and it hurts. My bf said we can try again(well we never tried the first time) but we an at least get married first and be prepared. I try to think about that.