[BrandieLee]

Ive been thinking about giving up trying so hard. After a tubal reversal and a year of trying with no success, Im just tired of the hurt every time I see the BFN. Dont know what else to do.

[anniemal]

I'm so sorry. But sometimes it does just take time and patience. *hugs*

[strvnwritr]

I'm sorry Perhaps it's just time to take a break. Not give up, just take a step back. I know the frustration that comes from seeing a BFN month after month. Sometimes a break is just what you need to keep your sanity. I'll still be keeping my FX'd for you, though!

[Mrs_lynn.c]

Dont give up,i to had a tubal reversal and only.have one tube. It takes time to get pregnant,me and my husband have been trying over two years with a loss in the middle. So dont give up just take some breathing time. Sending you hugs and baby dust.

[BrandieLee]

You ladies are amazing and I am so blessed to have found this site and now have people who truly know and understand what I am going through. I just hopped on here to see if we had anymore BFP from anybody, not expecting any reply to this thread and low n behold there are replies. So i begin to read them and instantly tears came to my eyes. It feels so good to have you ladies out there. My DH tries so hard to support me as he really truly wants a baby. A girl to be exact so he can finally have daddy's little girl! However, he just doesnt understand how I feel every time we get a BFN. All he sees is more baby making practice lol.
Well, I guess what I am trying to say more then anything, is Thank You Ladies. Thank You for being here by my side (so to speak) and helping me through this. I hope each and everyone one of you get the results you all want. You all deserve exactly what you want.

Now I must also say, yes I got a negative this morning but af hasnt started yet. And the strangest thing happened to me this evening. I went to workout at the gym as I always do and half way through my 2hr workout my shirt began to get wet. My boobies were leaking HMMMMM not sure why. The only medicine i am on isnt even medicine so to speak. Dr started me on prenatals and folic acid today. Im about 98% sure im not preggo, so what could have caused this? Could it have been the prenatal or folic acid? As today is the first day I have taked them

Thank You again so much Ladies. You are appreciated more then you know

[BrandieLee]

Mrs. Lynn C. only one tube, trying for 2 years with a loss in the middle! You poor girl!!! I truly am sorry for your loss!
How do you get through each month without going mad? Sometimes I feel like maybe I am not meant to have another child or something. I am very close with the Dr. who did the reversal. I see him and his team about every 3 months and he always runs tests cuz I ask him to and everything from blood work to ultrasounds and sperm counts are all amazing. But still no baby. And I dont know anybody who has had a reversal let alone understands what ALL of us girls on JM go through. So if you dont mind, from time to time, I may have questions for you.

[PamelaM826]

I am praying for you girls. I tried for 3 years with my ex-husband and no luck with him. I know the pain of wanting and waiting. I hope you both get a miracle very soon.

[Mrs_lynn.c]

Its very trying sometimes to see that bfn every month but I have a strong faith in god that keeps me going. Ive had multiple losses so I think by not getting that bfp when I want it is gods way of telling me its not time yet. I know when the time is rite I will see that bfp and you will to. I say a prayer for all the ladies here every night that they get there bfps. Keep your head up it will happen.

[Moni90]

Ditto!!! Same here... AF finally showed after skipping march.. I was so sure I was pregnant. I totally understand.. I'll keep you in my prayers thou

[BrandieLee]

@Moni90 I can only imagine what you were and are going through. You poor thing> My thoughts and prayers are with you. I pray this cycle you finally get your BFP.
Did the dr tell you why your af showed so late?

[3rdontheway]

I agree, I would not necessarily "give up" I would back off a bit, sometimes the "not trying" works wonders. Not stressing about not getting PG. Not trying, not preventing, ya know. I know lots of ladies on other threads that were in the same situation, then once they backed off a bit and didn't worry so much, within no time, most were PG without even realizing it.

Good luck, hope you get what you want soon hugsss

[KristyR]

brandi I know how you feel girl. I haven't had a tubal reversal but I understand the months that go by and nothing to show for. Don't give up though!

[BrandieLee]

Thank You ladies.

Kristi, I am so sorry you had your AF show. I was so hoping you were preg this month. Just something about you makes me want for you to have your BFP just as much as I want it for myself. Well heres to next month for you. However, our cycles will be a little off now cuz I still havent started AF. My last test 3 days ago was neg so im not bothering to test again cuz a pos always shows up right away for me. So i have let my period being late not even bother me. But hopefully it will start soon so I can move on to next month.

Keep me posted Kristi

[BrandieLee]

Still no period. Got car sick today when I havent gotten car sick since I was a child. Hmmmm I havent retested yet. Last test was monday and it was negative. So we will see

[swtneka]

Gl!

[BrandieLee]

Thank you. But im pretty sure im not pregnant this cycle. And im ok with that for now.