[MzzMommaD]

This year has been very confusing for my cycle. Heres how it looks:

January 9, 2012- very light 4 day period
February 2012- month skipped all together
March 4 2012- 4 day light period
April 2012- month skipped all together
As of May 16, still no period yet. I have gained 5 pounds. I am not on birth control. I am getting negative tests. DH and I have been actively trying. I DONT GET IT! DH, and a few of our friends all think im pregnant and it just isnt coming up yet on tests both home and clinic. I am so confused. What do you ladies think?

[strvnwritr]

You mentioned a test at a clinic...was this a blood test? Blood tests, particularly quantitative blood tests give you a definite answer, provided you wait late enough to test.

Most women are able to get a positive result on a urine test if they are late enough although occasionally you'll hear about someone who tests negative with urine even when they are certainly pregnant.

If you haven't had a blood test, I would suggest getting that done just to get a definite answer. If you already had a blood test, then it's probably safe to assume you aren't pregnant. It could be that your hormones are a little off. With that in mind, it wouldn't hurt to see the doctor just to figure out what's going on.

In any case, I hope you get your BFP soon. Please keep us posted!