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I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 4 years on July 11th. We did it without a condom, but he pulled out. However, we would do it.. Then he would pull out and ejaculate, then wipe it up, then start again, etc. We did it like that about 4 times in a row over a period of time. I read that precum has no sperm, but if you precum, then ejaculate, then precum and ejaculate again, etc. that the precum could have traces of sperm left. Is this true? I calculated myself to be in ovulation (or being most fertile) between July 9 - July 14. A couple days after we had done it, I had a very upset stomach, but I'm not sure if it was because of something I ate or not. Yesterday I also had a very upset stomach, and today I have a strange sensation somewhat similar to cramps. I also have had a strong backache but I often have a dull one anyway. I have also been eating ketchup with my french fries the past couple days, where I normally am disgusted with ketchup and haven't eaten it for years. All in all, I am not sure of whether I could be pregnant or not, especially since it's only been a week since the sex. I bought a pregnancy test but I suspect I'm not due for my period for another week, so I think it's too early to check still. Please tell me the likelihood of being pregnant..? Or if there are any other symptoms I should be watching for? Thanks!!!
From what I read it is true there is no or very little sperm in pre ejaculation, but having sex and then having sex again without urinating will leave sperm in the penis., therefore it can be pushed out with pre ejaculation with the next time you had sex. The chances of this are likely slim, but it does happen. On the symptom side of it, if in fact you did ovulate on July 11th it would have been about 6 days past ovulation, the embryo would be implanting around this time, implantation happens around 6-12 days post ovulation with most being between 7-10 days. So it would be too early for symptoms. I would wait til you are late for your period and then test, and if you end up being late, don't buy a blue dye test. They are awesome for evap lines which can look very much positive. Stick with a pink dye like answer, first response $ store, or something similar.
I agree with her on waiting to test on the other hand I've heard you can get pregnant faster on pre cum then regular cum and since that was your first time having sex you could of over done it and your stomach started hurting i wohld highly recommend useing protection if your not ttc it only takes one time and don't worry yourself to much
Thank you so much everyone for the replies. I guess it could be possible that I'm pregnant, I think I'm not due for my period until around the 25th, so I will wait for a little while and see... Thank you so much everyone!
I got pregnant with my 3rd son from pulling out.My husband swore he didn't cum in me,so either the pre cum got me pregnant or he didn't pull out in time like he thought.Good luck and ya please keep us posted.