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I think if there was a single month I didnt think I was pregnant the world would stop spinning. But anywhoooo...af os due on sunday, last night dh and I were bding and its like he couldnt not hit my cervox. And no, we werent in any freaky new positions, it was nothing unusual and it was the first time its ever happened. *sometimesthere is one position that jabs it a little, but its usually nothing even mild. This was uncomfortable almost the whole time and afterwards I was laying in bed just HURTING.this morning it still hirts a little.
Anyways, ive heard that sometimes early pregnancy can make things more sensitive. Anyone have input???
Now, for some oddities/rants of this month. I think a week and a half into this cycle I was organizing the store I working in and found a book called "the little big book of pregnancy" on one of the shelves. This was strange because I work in a jewelry/handbag boutique. I was really negative about ttc at the beginning of this cycle and I took it as a sign not to be.
A few nights ago I had my first ever dream of beong pregnant. I delivered the baby andit was unexpected I guess because in my dream dh was not there, but came to hospital later. And even weirder, since I have TRIED to have these dreams six+ months ago to no avail, but I actually SAW the baby. It was a girl and she looked a lot like dh, but with lighter eyes like me.
I like "signs". Things that you see or things that happen that can make you feel positive about TTC when you are just about quit/or have just given it up.
I had a dream at the start of this cycle that someone we know came to our house and said they left something special for us on the bed in our room. When they left we went to go see and it was a baby girl wrapped in a blanket.
Good luck, I really hope this is your cycle for your BFP
I'm not sure about the cervix pain because BD never hurt for me until after I got pregnant.
Now, for the dreams! I am a firm believer that our bodies send us dreams on a subconcious level. Mine happened a few months before we even thought of babies or concieved but first I had a dream that I'd given birth to a beautiful boy and I remember looking at him and he was just so perfect I fell in love instantly. I knew he was mine. and then I had a dream about breast feeding in the hospital after I had a little girl. I didn't see her though. I assume that's because I have to have my boy first. And then I had a third dream of a positive pregnancy test. All this happened while away from JM. May all sound weird but now I'm pregnant and it's a boy just like I knew from the second we found out! I think our bodies know things on a deeper level before we consciously do.
I've dreamed of babies, sometimes when I knew I was pregnant, sometimes when I wasn't and even recently when I'm not trying and my new husband has been 'fixed' for like 11 years, which just amped up my baby fever and desire to have a baby with him. I think that if you have the thought in your mind, sometimes it comes out in our dreams, and obviously if you are trying to get pregnant it will happen eventually (in most cases, if there is no big fertility issues) so the dreams don't predict anything. It is just a reflection of your thinking you could be, or wanting to be or hoping to be. If it's from thinking you could be and you are then it's really just because the chance was already there and had nothing to do with the dream persay.
As for the cervix, my cervix gets extremely sensitive in pregnancy. It's very possible that it could be a pregnancy sign. But, the cervix changes position throughout your cycle so it could be that it's just in a lower position at this time and easy to hit.
This was the first month that I had something happen like that to make me think "oh,I need to stop being negative about this."
On the dream- I told DH it was bittersweet because in my dream I felt (what I imagine) it would be like to see my actual child for the first time, and I thought I finally have a baby, and then of course I woke up. Also a strange part of that dream--I told the hospital staff that I wanted the baby to be breastfed and they were SO against it, and kept trying to force formula and wouldn't help me figure out nursing and I was so upset about it. Haha.
I just thought that was weird because as I said there isn't a month that goes by that I dont convince myself in some way that I'm pregnant yet this was the first dream.
Hopefully the cervix is a sign of bfp! I was aware that the cervix changes positions throughout your cycle, but like I said it's never felt like "THAT" before. We shall seeeee.
If your dream was vivid, despite it being a pregnancy dream of a dream about walking down the road, it can be a sign. When I got pregnant one of the first subtle signs was that I would have vivid dreams.
When I got pregnant with my 4th, I remember well that my first vivid dream was that I had kittens.. lol I birthed a litter of kittens but in the dream, of course, it wasn't weird. hahaha
Last edited by LuvRBx5; July 26th, 2012 at 09:56 AM.
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Well, af was due sunday...still no sign of her. Still having weirrrrd vivid dreams. Took a test yesterday and it was bfn. Our anniversary is this weekend and I really hope af doesnt interfere with our plans... Agh.
I was late the day I tested too. Guess maybe I O'd late. Ill probably go buy an 88˘ test to take friday am if I still havent started. I really dont feel prego this month but if I am'n how great would it be to incorporate that into dhs gift