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April 16th, 2013, 03:21 PM
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Well I was on this board a while back but DH kept backing out of TTC for almost 3 years! He would promise me a TTC date than when that date came he kept delaying it. I left the board because a lot of people were telling me that he would never have another child with me and that I should leave him and I felt hopeless. Well the problem was the economy, he kept getting laid off, had to take temp or contract jobs. Now he has been in a stable job that pays well for about 8 months and we are saving to buy a house next year. Our relationship is much better and we rarely fight. Now he has to have a vasectomy reversal. I thought he would never actually do it but yesterday he called the doctor and made the appointment all on his own without me even having to nag him. So soon we will be TTC. After 3 years of waiting it does not even seem real. The good thing is that over all this time I got over my obsession with having another child so I am much more relaxed about the TTC process. It is nice to see some people I know here and I hope I can be more active on this board soon.
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April 16th, 2013, 03:31 PM
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Welcome back Nicole. I remember your struggles and I am so happy to hear that DH is now on board, that your financial and personal relationship is better, and that you will be able to TTC again as you wanted to do. It's truly wonderful that he is getting the reversal but I think it speaks volumes to you that he did make that appointment all on his own. It shows a respect for you that you deserve. I am so happy for you...hope to hear great news and see some pink lines soon!!
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April 16th, 2013, 03:43 PM
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Hi Stefanie It is so nice to see some familure names here. We had a great group a couple years back and it is sad to see most people gone but I am happy that they got their BFP's. I am sure I will get to know a lot of great new people also. I will probably be here a while as it usually takes 6-12 months sometimes more of TTC before getting a BFP after vasectomy reversal. We have about a 60% chance of being able to TTC naturally.

I am really sorry to see the struggles you have had over the past year. Poor baby angels. I really hope you will get a sticky BFP soon. I am sure you will get your little miracle. Never loose hope, miracles happen every day. Best wishes to you and your family.
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April 16th, 2013, 05:03 PM
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Yay. Good luck momma. My husband always said he'd never have another child. We have four total none together. And he changed his mind too. We are TTC.
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April 16th, 2013, 05:31 PM
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Welcome back Glad to hear everything worked out.
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April 16th, 2013, 07:08 PM
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Welcome back!! I can't wait to hear how everything goes. I very impatiently await seeing your test pics!!!
Thoughts and prayers for a smooth, quick TTC journey!
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April 16th, 2013, 09:53 PM
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Welcome back Nicole I'm so happy for you!!!

I got pregnant with my first Vasectomy reversal baby 3mo after the reversal and got pregnant with my second reversal baby 11mo after having my first VR baby was born, I am now 13wks pregnant with VR baby #2

Keep your head up I have lots of hope for you!!!!!!!!!
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April 16th, 2013, 11:12 PM
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Welcome back Nicole I'm so happy for you!!!

I got pregnant with my first Vasectomy reversal baby 3mo after the reversal and got pregnant with my second reversal baby 11mo after having my first VR baby was born, I am now 13wks pregnant with VR baby #2

Keep your head up I have lots of hope for you!!!!!!!!!
Hi Summer. I definatly remember you. Not many other people TTC after VR around here. I can't stand the TTC after vasectomy reversal boards because everyone there is so negative. Thanks for the encouraging words! It is definatly uplifting to hear you have VR baby #2 on the way. Congratulations! Do you hope for a boy this time?

So now I just have to wait for the surgery date. Next week DH meets with the doctor than will pay the deposit and schedule the surgery date. Good to be back and this time will actually be TTC
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April 17th, 2013, 03:01 AM
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Hi Stefanie It is so nice to see some familure names here. We had a great group a couple years back and it is sad to see most people gone but I am happy that they got their BFP's. I am sure I will get to know a lot of great new people also. I will probably be here a while as it usually takes 6-12 months sometimes more of TTC before getting a BFP after vasectomy reversal. We have about a 60% chance of being able to TTC naturally.

I am really sorry to see the struggles you have had over the past year. Poor baby angels. I really hope you will get a sticky BFP soon. I am sure you will get your little miracle. Never loose hope, miracles happen every day. Best wishes to you and your family.
Thank you for your kind words. It truly has been a rough year, but I have four Guardian Angels now and I know they will look over me and our family and help protect any blessings we may receive.
We really did have a great group a few years back, but many have moved on with babies and more babies. I wish them all well and I hope you and I will have good luck upcoming!!
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April 17th, 2013, 03:20 AM
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Thank you for your kind words. It truly has been a rough year, but I have four Guardian Angels now and I know they will look over me and our family and help protect any blessings we may receive.
We really did have a great group a few years back, but many have moved on with babies and more babies. I wish them all well and I hope you and I will have good luck upcoming!!
I have searched and found a few people. maybe they will come back again soon if they TTC again. Just Mommies should make a reunion page were people can post their updates. maybe there is already a page like this I should look.
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April 17th, 2013, 07:39 AM
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Hi Nicole! So glad your back. I'm glad Dh is on board for another baby, so exciting!!! I hope your TTC journey quick and sweet. Can't wait to start squinting at tests with you. Good Luck!
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April 17th, 2013, 02:07 PM
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Thank you for the welcome back! I probably wont have any HPT pics for a few months. DH has his consult next week than it is usually a month to a month and a half before there is an opening for surgery. Than you can't BD for 2 weeks after the surgery than very rare for anyone to get pregnant sooner than 3 months after the surgery. It will be fun HPT testing anyways! I have been waiting a Looooong time for this
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April 17th, 2013, 04:22 PM
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Do you already have tests?
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April 17th, 2013, 04:42 PM
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Do you already have tests?
Yes I just bought 100 Wonfo and I have about 10 Answer tests and a few digitals. Oh and I have all the ovulation tests also. I feel relaxed now but once I know we have a chance to get pregnant I will probably start HPT testing like a psycho. I am planning to only ovulation test and look for ewcm. I tried the BBT charting a while back and found it not much help and too much headache.
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