Log In Sign Up

Don't know where to go next?


Forum: Am I Pregnant

Notices

Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Like Tree1Likes
  • 1 Post By CharlaJoy

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To Am I Pregnant LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
  #1  
October 12th, 2013, 06:42 AM
Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Virginia
Posts: 197
Hi I am new to this kinda thing but need some advice. My husband and I have been trying for our 2nd. I am always regular give or take a day. As of today I am 8 days late was due to start on oct 4th so last Friday. And no signs or starting yet. I don't really have many symptoms other than lower back cramps (never had that before) and I'm starving al the time I can eat something and I can still feel like I haven't eaten anything. I have taken 2 HPT both were negative. I'm so confused and don't know what to do. With my first daughter my husband knew and I got a positive right away and now it's negative even after 8 days. Could it still be possible I am?
Reply With Quote
  #2  
October 12th, 2013, 08:52 AM
MosaicWife's Avatar Missa
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: Virginia
Posts: 5,369
What probably happened is that you ovulated late which causes AF to come later. There is still a very good chance you are and if you ovulated late then you have tested too early. It's not over till the witch shows! Keep testing! Good luck!
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #3  
October 12th, 2013, 11:10 AM
4 Boys & 4 Girls !
Join Date: Apr 2011
Posts: 3,729
I agree....and sometimes because of that or not, it can take longer for the test to show it as positive. Blood test may show it sooner for you.
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #4  
October 15th, 2013, 05:49 AM
Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Virginia
Posts: 197
I am 11 days late as of today and still no signs of AF. Did a test 2 days ago (Sunday) and another negative. Still having lower back cramps and off and on stomach cramps but they are very light just noticeable and mostly on one side. I have noticed some breast tenderness. My husband told me ive been more moody lately. Will wait until next week and retest and if still negative will make a drs appt. the waiting is horrible. Just wishing I knew what was up. I'm 24 and never missed a period before.

I take that back I've never missed a period except when I was pregnant with my daughter
Reply With Quote
  #5  
October 15th, 2013, 10:51 AM
pattyandthemoos's Avatar Administrator
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Michigan
Posts: 61,657
Do you remember if you were under stress or sick around the time you were supposed to ovulate? That can cause your ovulation to be delayed. I'm sure you did ovulate later this month or your period would have arrived on time or you would have had a positive test sooner. My guess is you ovulated later than you usually did and that is why you are not getting your period or a positive test. Were you having sex regularly after you thought you had ovulated? That would definitely up your chances of being pregnant right now. I think you may need to make a doctor's appt and get a blood test if you don't get an answer soon. Hopefully you will get a positive test soon though.
__________________
Patty JustMommies Administrator
Reply With Quote
  #6  
October 15th, 2013, 12:59 PM
Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Virginia
Posts: 197
I haven't been sick at all recently and maybe a little stress but nothing major normally if I am extremely stressed I'm still no later than 3 days late. And yes definatly have regular sex.
Reply With Quote
  #7  
October 15th, 2013, 08:45 PM
WaitinginNJ's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 2,640
Have you called the doctor at all? Are you coming off of bc?
__________________

RIP Julianna Rose-Marie Tyreesa
June 6, 2014

My Ovulation Chart





My Ovulation Chart
Reply With Quote
  #8  
October 16th, 2013, 05:23 AM
pattyandthemoos's Avatar Administrator
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Michigan
Posts: 61,657
Quote:
Originally Posted by Timmys4ever View Post
I haven't been sick at all recently and maybe a little stress but nothing major normally if I am extremely stressed I'm still no later than 3 days late. And yes definatly have regular sex.
You might want to get a blood test done.

Quote:
Originally Posted by WaitinginNJ View Post
Have you called the doctor at all? Are you coming off of bc?
Yeh, bc can mess with your cycles so if you are just coming off the pill, that could explain things.
__________________
Patty JustMommies Administrator
Reply With Quote
  #9  
October 16th, 2013, 05:27 AM
Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Virginia
Posts: 197
No I haven't called my Dr yet my regular Dr and my obgyn are 45 minutes away. I will call if I get a negative this weekend. I did start having a few more symptoms though..seems like I can smell everything and my stomach gets upset everytime I eat. I am not coming off bc I had mirena and had it removed 5 months ago. The first month after removal I was all over the place. The past 3 months I've been spot on until this month.
pattyandthemoos likes this.
Reply With Quote
  #10  
October 17th, 2013, 03:23 PM
Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Virginia
Posts: 197
Well I got a BFN on a CB digital today so guess I'm making a drs appt first of the week. Tomorrow will be 2 weeks late and with negative test it's got me a little worried about what's wrong with me. And my DH doesn't seem to understand why.
Reply With Quote
  #11  
October 17th, 2013, 03:56 PM
Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: May 2005
Location: Snohomish, WA
Posts: 9,292
Send a message via AIM to Renee360 Send a message via Yahoo to Renee360
You may just want to take a test with lines and once you get your BFP then test with a digital. The digital test tend to be less sensitive.

GL and I hope you get a BFP soon!
__________________





Renee
Reply With Quote
  #12  
October 18th, 2013, 06:29 AM
Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Virginia
Posts: 197
I used a cheap $ store line test and it was negative as well
Reply With Quote
  #13  
October 18th, 2013, 06:40 AM
Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: May 2005
Location: Snohomish, WA
Posts: 9,292
Send a message via AIM to Renee360 Send a message via Yahoo to Renee360
Sorry to hear you got another negative HPT.

Maybe you should make a call to your Dr. to find out what is going on especially since your MC was suppose to start on the 4th.
__________________





Renee
Reply With Quote
  #14  
October 18th, 2013, 08:14 AM
pattyandthemoos's Avatar Administrator
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Michigan
Posts: 61,657
I've never had a lot of luck with the dollar store tests. It could just be the test isn't picking it up. I think making an appt with your doctor is a good idea. Hopefully, you'll get an answer soon but your doctor can order a blood test or help more with finding out what's going on.
__________________
Patty JustMommies Administrator
Reply With Quote
  #15  
October 25th, 2013, 01:23 PM
Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Virginia
Posts: 197
Ok so I have not scheduled an apt yet simply bc I haven't had a ride, my husband as been getting off too late. I will be soon trying to get someone else to take me. However I still have not seen any signs of AF. alert... I did have some light bloody spotting/discharge after sex a couple nights ago.. I put a pad on just incase it was AF but there was nothing on the pad after wearing it all day and nothing since then. It was only a little on the toilet paper when I wiped that night and the next morning. I have not done another test since the last time I posted I did one. I have kind of a nervous feeling all the time in my stomach even when Im not nervous. I am 21 days late today. Hoping for answers soon.
Reply With Quote
  #16  
October 25th, 2013, 05:28 PM
Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: May 2005
Location: Snohomish, WA
Posts: 9,292
Send a message via AIM to Renee360 Send a message via Yahoo to Renee360
And the mystery continues for you, I'm sorry.

You could possibly ovulated late and the spotting you just experienced could be IB? I would still try and get into your doctor and have them do some b/w. What day are you in your cycle?
__________________





Renee
Reply With Quote
  #17  
October 25th, 2013, 06:47 PM
Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Virginia
Posts: 197
I'm not sure what day I am on. I've never been good at that stuff. I know I'm every 28 days normally, then missed my period that was supposed to start on Oct 4th.... if I was going to start this. time I would be due to start next Friday.
Reply With Quote
  #18  
October 26th, 2013, 06:55 AM
momma_d's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Texas
Posts: 6,225
The "nervous feeling" in your stomach even when your not nervous sounds more like anxiety to me, because when my anxiety is peaking that's how I feel. That alone will mess with your cycles big time.

I sometimes get anxiety for no real reason, even when I don't feel stressed or worried or anything. Sometimes our bodies just naturally react that way to certain "triggers"

I hope you get an answer soon and hopefully its the bfp you are wishing for!
__________________



Danielle, Wife to Brian, Mommy to Keira & Kynlee

Reply With Quote
Reply

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:04 PM.



Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2016, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0