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Well dh and i are doing great. we are in counseling more to help us communicate. We are closer than i ever thought. He finalyl understands my view of things. I try not to bring up the past as i just want to get over it.
What is great is I dont check up on him anymore. I still have all his paswords but I am not constantly checking his email or the phone record. I look at the phone record only if i havent heard from him all day to see if he is tecting anyone. when he tells me he is working late i just get annoyed that he is going to not see the kids.
He has become more romantic and loving than i have ever seen him. He helps out around the house and everything. Our last fight I cant even remember. I just recently lost my grandfather and he was so supportive of me.
I am so happy now with my marriage than i have been in a long time. I am almost to the point where the only worries i have when he deploys is if he is doing okay not worrying if he is cheating.
I think he realized that i was at my end and he was upset that i went on a depression medication and feels that its his fault. which he has a partail blame of it but its a lot of factors.
i am just glad that my marriage is where i want it to be esp before his deployment.
I am so happy for you! What an inspiration you are to other women who are trying to put a failing marriage back on track. You may still have some bad days but when you do, look back on times like this where you are completely at ease and remember WHY you feel this way. Because you have the love and support of a good man, and you both wanted this enough to work things out. Keyword BOTH! It sounds like you have completely turned things around. That is wonderful! You should both be very proud of what you have done and your commitment to each other and your family. It isn't easy, but it was sure worth it! CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Thank you. I really thought I was near the end but I am just glad it is all coming around. we still have a little issues to work out but that is more of his way of spending and whatnot but im just glad he doesnt see everything as all about him anymore.
WOW! I remember talking with you a while back and you shared some things that I couldn't even IMAGINE going through! I truly dont know how you have gotten to the place you have but I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU BOTH! Im glad you are happy and not worried anymore especially during deployments. You are a VERY committed woman and I truly admire you BOTH for sticking this out through all the hell and getting counseling! Makes me cry happy tears.....and that precious little girl wont have to endure the pain of that!
Im really excited for you and was so glad to read such a happy update from you!