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Im talking about that we reached an agreement Friday. Then he wanted to change it to a separation. ( I would get more money that way) and so I told him if he was crazy enough to call the attorney himself and research that, that everything would stay the same in as in our agreed divorce papers, and I got more money, then I would agree.
He called her. She didn't immediately return his call yesterday and he is calling her again? I let him do the work if he really wanted to do this...so he did. I just sent her an email saying that if he called her, I was willing to do this and that was all I wrote. LOL! Hearing is on Thursday.
I dont know...Im just kinda waiting on what she says.
I only see the point for the short term. I have always thought separation was just an excuse for two people to get past the denial stage....however long and drawn out may be....
I dunno. I didn't call the attorney myself....just email. So maybe that's why she didn't do anything about it? I dont even know if I want to? So...tomorrow is Wednesday.....I would have to call her myself probably to change this...since I hired her and all....lol. And I havent.
Sorry for my brief moment of wavering doubt. Sticking to my guns...no amount of money is worth everything that my children and I have been through.
I guess if we were meant to be together, it would be GOD who brought us back together. And IF that were in His plan for our lives, it would be a long long while.
Thanks for humoring my stupidity.......
Today is hard...tomorrow will be harder....and I will probably be drunk on Thursday. LMAO
I know that trying to see past the hurt isn't easy, but you're right, you need to stick to your guns. You have been fighting this all along, and it's time to get it over with instead of going through the bulk of it a second time.
It's not worth it for you to give in even if it does have a financial benefit. Follow your path that you know is right, it's what you have been fighting for all this time and remember that it will be over soon!