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  #1  
March 9th, 2010, 10:42 AM
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Ok, my hearing is Thursday. And the talk about switching to separation? I guess I am just playing the passive waiting game to see what happens....one way or another.

I feel really weird.
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March 9th, 2010, 11:07 AM
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OK, maybe I shouldn't even be considering this! ACK!

Someone input please? Maybe I should wait and see if the attorney even addresses this?

And if she doesn't call back or email, do I just go the hearing anyway to make the divorce final?

OMG....someone help me! LOL!

IM a friggin mess.............

Wish I could call someone to knock to some sense into me! IM really going to throw up now.
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March 9th, 2010, 11:45 AM
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I'm confused! What are you talking about hon?

Just read your other post & I am even more confused now than before.

Are you saying that he is using money & insurance as some sort of bribe to not make the divorce final?
If that's the case, he's got something up his sleeve.

I will be heading out in a few minutes when the kids get home from school, but I will be back and checking in here!
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March 9th, 2010, 02:45 PM
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Im talking about that we reached an agreement Friday. Then he wanted to change it to a separation. ( I would get more money that way) and so I told him if he was crazy enough to call the attorney himself and research that, that everything would stay the same in as in our agreed divorce papers, and I got more money, then I would agree.

He called her. She didn't immediately return his call yesterday and he is calling her again? I let him do the work if he really wanted to do this...so he did. I just sent her an email saying that if he called her, I was willing to do this and that was all I wrote. LOL! Hearing is on Thursday.

I dont know...Im just kinda waiting on what she says.
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March 9th, 2010, 03:31 PM
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Ah ok

Well, you do whatever you feel is right for yourself and the kids; don't sign anything until you are certain and make sure that when all is said & done, it's set in..stone so to speak
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March 9th, 2010, 04:06 PM
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I only see the point for the short term. I have always thought separation was just an excuse for two people to get past the denial stage....however long and drawn out may be....

I dunno. I didn't call the attorney myself....just email. So maybe that's why she didn't do anything about it? I dont even know if I want to? So...tomorrow is Wednesday.....I would have to call her myself probably to change this...since I hired her and all....lol. And I havent.
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March 9th, 2010, 04:45 PM
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Sorry for my brief moment of wavering doubt. Sticking to my guns...no amount of money is worth everything that my children and I have been through.

I guess if we were meant to be together, it would be GOD who brought us back together. And IF that were in His plan for our lives, it would be a long long while.

Thanks for humoring my stupidity.......

Today is hard...tomorrow will be harder....and I will probably be drunk on Thursday. LMAO
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March 10th, 2010, 04:16 AM
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Drunk sounds good...Drunk sounds real good. I can do drunk.
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March 10th, 2010, 04:22 AM
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Sorry for my brief moment of wavering doubt. Sticking to my guns...no amount of money is worth everything that my children and I have been through.

I guess if we were meant to be together, it would be GOD who brought us back together. And IF that were in His plan for our lives, it would be a long long while.

Thanks for humoring my stupidity.......

Today is hard...tomorrow will be harder....and I will probably be drunk on Thursday. LMAO
I know that trying to see past the hurt isn't easy, but you're right, you need to stick to your guns. You have been fighting this all along, and it's time to get it over with instead of going through the bulk of it a second time.
It's not worth it for you to give in even if it does have a financial benefit. Follow your path that you know is right, it's what you have been fighting for all this time and remember that it will be over soon!
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March 10th, 2010, 06:10 AM
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Drunk sounds good...Drunk sounds real good. I can do drunk.
LOL! Dani you crack me up!

Thank you Kraze for your support.

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