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March 14th, 2010, 10:27 AM
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cant into the explanation because it would take me a year to explain let alone the emotions that follow but...
if all goes well i am leaving in 9 days .. i dont know that leaving will be a success but i dont know how i am going to react.. its been 10 years.. you know? and 1 kid... can anybody help me prepare for the emotions and...feelings behind it.. or any advice?tyia
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March 14th, 2010, 11:49 AM
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I dont think anyone can tell you what you will go through emotionally, really. The basics....the grief and loss, or maybe it's more relief?
Good luck to you!
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March 15th, 2010, 07:48 AM
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Hope is probably the best one to give you that information since she just had her divorce finalized. Just about any emotion you have ever had is going to resurface at some point in this process. You're going to grieve what you lost--the dream of a happy family and a life with this man--you're going to feel relieved that it's finally coming to an end, you're going to feel frightened and uncertain as you begin to grow and come into your own, excited as you realise what you are capable of, happy with your accomplishments as you gain them...worried that you won't be able to succeed or you will fall into another marriage that might end, ashamed because you think that you may be flawed and that's why it didn't work out....just about everything else will at some point waltz across your heart. Try to be strong and stay on course. We will gladly give you all the support and encouragement we can to help you through. It isn't easy...in fact there will be times when you just don't think you can take anymore. But you will make it through and someday look back and see what a journey it really was....and feel good about yourself for making it through.
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