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Lillie's dad called me last night. He said he got in an accident coming back from Birmingham. He said he's a little cut up, but otherwise, he seemed alright. He then decided it would be a good time to tell me what happened. That he was driving down the interstate next to his GIRLFRIEND (!!!!!!!) and he hit her (he was probably driving recklessly).. Why would he say it was his GIRLFRIEND???? What the heck! So now, not only am I worried about my baby girl's dad, but I also have to deal with him having a girlfriend.. It really doesn't bother me, because I have been seeing someone, but what a nice way to tell me. KWIM? He's making me go insane.
Of course it would bother you, even if you are seeing someone, you are not used to seeing HIM w/ someone or having him say that he has a "lady friend"... it's normal to get weird about it, you don't want him anymore, you are happier w/ out him, but you never imagined him w/ another until now, so I can assume that this would be a difficult comment to swallow.
My DH's ex-wife was fine w/ all his "lady friends" but the moment he said he was getting married, she flipped her lid, then when he said "having another baby (2)" she was also flipping out & her words were "thank you for making this one of the worst days of my life"... WTH? She expected him to be single, at her beck & call, taking orders from her, while she slept around & once he found someone, got a family, had more kids, she realized that she wasn't on his priority list, and she was off the list entirely, unless it was about their child that they had together in their marriage.
Well, I met the girlfriend yesterday. Let me start by saying that I was definitely NOT his type. The new gf is. Blonde, petite, thin, tiny boobs, and TOTALLY FAKE! Oh, not to mention she's a freakin STRIPPER! WTH?! Ugh! Totally not the other female role model I want for Lillie. Oh, she has a 2 year old who she puts in pageants. That, to me, is just wrong. Let's see. After a month together, they are head over heels "in love" with each other! Hmm, anything else? Oh yeah, they're MOVING IN TOGETHER! If I wanted to be a terrible person, I could get his visitation taken away because they will cohabitating. But I know that Lillie needs her dad in her life (whether she knows it now or not) so I won't.. But he better watch his back and be super nice to me.
Oh my sweet Jess, I know you are wayyyy more smarter than this, you know (even deep down) it has not been a month! But I know exactly what you mean!!! A month after I left the new woman was sitting on MY back porch. At least you've been seeing someone in the mean time I am been just boring ole me, working, living with my mom and dad, and going out one night every other weekend when I'm off. Gosh I am sad... Girl you need to be finding out which club she dances at so we can have a girls night to check her out! LMAO!!!!
I am sorry, I know exactly how you felt when you heard the word "girlfriend" because it was probably the same feeling when I heard the clerk say "He's filed for DIVORCE this morning"....ummmm I wasn't aware that a pallet of bricks could suddenly turn invisible and come flying through the doors to literally crush me....or maybe a huge body builder turning invisible and punching me so hard in the stomach I want to collapse on the floor.......
But don't feel bad, I am still waiting for the only 2 things that can top what my STBX has done 1.) the pregnancy announcement and 2.) the remarriage after the mandatory 90 day waiting period