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May 8th, 2010, 08:39 PM
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I had already been a little emotional today because tomorrows Mother's Day and I don't have my older two kids because of that stupid judge and my x and my kids to be quite frank. So I going about with stuff I figured I would get a call I was going to call them because it's my oldest B-day big 15. Well they stopped by and brought me a card and I broke down in tears and couldn't stop I didn't want to cry in front of them I didn't really want them to know I was hurting so much. Then they said they were going to see if they could come over for a while tomorrow. I almost don't want them too I'm still so heart broken that I can't have the whole day with them that their stepmom bi@#$ gets to play mom to them she is not their mom.

I'm so hurt.... I hate him soooooo much why did he take my kids from me I am a good mom. Of course Brianna has highlights in her hair and like 10 braclets. and Jennifer is wearing a jacket with holes cut out for her thumbs so I don't know I'm just tooo sticked and critical because they wouldn't be dressing like that here. Jennifer is 12.
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May 9th, 2010, 12:02 AM
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I can't imagine the pain that you are going through. I know it hurts. But you can see them tomorrow-at least for a little while, right?

Try to focus on the younger two you do have with you. I know...it doesn't take away the hurt or replace anything...but its something?

Gosh I wish I had more encouraging words for you right now...sending HUGS your way!

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY....OR MAKE IT THAT WAY IF YOU HAVE TO!
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May 9th, 2010, 09:42 AM
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Margaret, I am so sorry. I can't imagine what you're going through. I hope with all my heart you have a good Mother's Day and spend some quality time with them. You deserve that. Someday THEY will be the ones asking their father why. Why did you take our mom away from us? Why didn't you let us see her more? He's going to be hard pressed to come up with an acceptable answer that they will think is good enough...I don't think it can be done.
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May 9th, 2010, 05:18 PM
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Thanks, I had a nice time with them this morrning and went to their church too. Jennifer what giving a talk and it want nice to hear it. I had a really nice time and I wasn't too emotional today as I was yesterday. It was a nice Mother's Day thank you again and Happy Mother's day to all of you out there,
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May 10th, 2010, 06:08 AM
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I am so happy for you! That sounds like a perfectly wonderful Mother's Day!HUGS!!!
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May 10th, 2010, 02:18 PM
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I'm very sorry you are going through this Margaret, but I'm glad you got to spend some time with you girls! Even if it was just half a day!

If it's any consilation, I got to spend time with my 2 children who live at home with me but my heart ached because I didn't get to spend time with my 4 year old son, he spend Mother's Day with his Step-mom, who he actually calls mom becuase they put it in his head that she is his mommy!

:HUGS: to you honey!
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