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Frederick and I are doing good. We're both living with my sister now. He's
about to start a new school. I'm excited.
I'm back in college working on my diploma for medical office assisting. I'll be done in may! I'm excited.
Frederick's gone through two surguries; tubes and his adenoids removed thus far.
Fob hasn't seen him or made much of an effort to be part of his life. I'm okay with that. Frederick has everything he needs and some of what he wants.
I've learned to let go of what could have been.
I've found an attorney I like and hopefully custody will get arranged and visitation. What I'm going for is full custody. The attorney said I should get it since he hasn't been around little man since we left and has only ever sent 50.00 one time since we left as well.
I've got a new phone now too curtesey of my mom. Thank god!
The attorney also told me there's no way our judge will let fob take him out of the state since he doesn't know him. I'm like phew on that one!
I also stand a higher chance of full custody because we're in 2 different states.
I am happy. I'm also doing yoga every Tuesday now as well. I plan to start hopefully swimming every day as well to get back in shape.
I've learned that *I* have to make myself happy. No one can do it for me. Meaning, I can't rely on others to do that.
I plan to start seeing a therapist as well again. I've been letting go of things but sometimes I still get so mad at fob.
I'm also realizing that I'm okay. I'm really okay. I've got a sister and family who love me and Frederick. They're helping me get through school because I'm not working so I finish faster.
Soo much going for me! And best of all, David, an unrelated adopted son of my aunts who is 27/28 (I think) is coming back in town maybe to do a 'daddy donut' day with Frederick at his new school. He and Frederick get along like a dad and son should. He plays with him, tickles, took him to the park, fed him, etc..
Since I didn't have anyone else I could ask, I asked him.. I've got my fingers crossed.