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January 18th, 2011, 08:46 PM
MzzMommaD's Avatar Sleepy Rat Rattery
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Well, tell him you are pregnant. See what he says or does. If it were me, I could never accept that woman or child as any part of my life, it would be too much. I would probably have to make him choose who he wanted, his wife and kids, or the OTHER woman. If he even so much as hesitated on deciding, I think my heart would completely shatter and I would probably leave. How dare he have an affair for any reason. However, if he chose us, I would tell him/ask him to be no part of her life. If she demands support, well, sucks to be him he can pay out of his own money. But honestly, you are caught in a very tough situation. What does your heart and mind tell you? WOULD or COULD you ever see a counselor? I would demand a DNA test of the other woman's baby to be ABSOLUTELY sure its really even HIS. Does she know he is even married? That he has a whole family? I dont understand how women can do this to families.
I will keep my fingers crossed for you. PLEASE keep us updated as things go along. I wish you the best and you and your daughter are in my thoughts tonight.
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