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So My husband cheated on my 5 years ago we worked things out. Then when i was having our son he left to talk to an old flame. We worked things out. We did lose the romance and its just we are friends. I have a coworker who is married also going through marital problems. I started having feelings for him but kept it inside. He was married I was married. We joke about it then a week ago he kissed me i never felt that way. Not even with my husband. We have been seeing each other but its more of a thrill not getting caught cause our jobs would be lost. He did however show me that I dont have to be afraid. I should not let my husband talk me down anymore. There is someone out there who would want me kids and all. I love my husband I just dont like the hurt and lies.
Plus I feel so guilty for what Im doing so i dont get how he can just keep doing it.
So I am seriously thinking about asking dh for a divorce I just seriously dont know how and im so afraid.
You should always end 1 relationship before you start another.
I have concerns that this 2nd guy is playing you. It's never a good idea to "fix" marital problems with an affair. He says you should stop letting your dh put you down but you need to make sure this guy's not using you either. Sorry if I sound harsh but an affair is never the answer.