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MY husband and I of 9 years have been separated for 3 weeks now. We got into a big arguement over him making plans for us to go out with friends without consulting with me and it ended into him giving me an ultimatium and saying he wanted a divorce and he left. He is living with his brother, we have a 15 month old son and we see him almost everyday for a couple of hours. He claims he loves me but is not in love with me anymore ..how is this possible? He says he doesn't like the person he becomes when he is around me that he gets in a bad mood when he is with me but we have our moments. He claims there is no one else. But he is not happy refuses to go to counseling and says he wants out. I dont know what else to do. I am trying to save our marriage and it seems he is just going through the motions. I have asked him for us to go on dates and he says he is not there yet, that he may never be there and I have to accept that. What do I do?
Im sorry you're going through that. i honestly would start talking to a counseler to work through your own feelings and see if he changes his mind. Ultimately, you cant force him to go, but maybe he will once he sees you going.