[LuvMyKiddosx2]

Hi Ladies, I have been looking on JM for a board like this cause I am in need of advice. My BF and I have been together for 9 yrs now we have 2 kids together, we have been engaged before but we havent made it down the aisle yet...

We are going through alot of issues in our relationship, trust being a huge one! we are trying to work things out but we are not getting far. How many times is too many to work things out? He says he wants to be with me, only me, and he loves me...but I just dont see it in his actions. and I am ready to throw in the towel...I feel I am trying to do my part...but I may need a lil more help...

Have any of you ladies, actually made it through with working it out and have a happy and strong relationship now? Any advice on what we can do through communication and actions to show we really want this....I believe we both love each other, and are somewhat in love but not completely anymore because of whats happening between us....

Any help is appreciated...I have tried looking online for relationship help, counseling anything...but no luck!!!

Thanks n advance for your advice.

[joey_emmysmommy]

I'm sorry hon I'm in the same boat as you except I have baby#3 on the way too. I want to work it out and he says he does too one minute then the next he is acting single so I moved in with my mom so he can figure his own stuff out.