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I have a custody agreement with my ex that I did not feel comfortable with from day 1. My lawyer, his lawyer and the family services lady insisted it was fair and in the best interest of my 3 year old daughter so i complied. We have had many issue since the agreement. My ex is in community theater and thinks it is appropriate to bring our daughter to his rehearsals and leave her with a laptop to watch movies on while he is on stage and can see her from the stage and insists everyone is looking out for her when she is there. He things this is quality time with her even if the rehearsals go all night past her bed time until 10-11pm.
My daughter just got home from an overnight with him and said "mommy i am going to live with daddy and we (her and i) can have playdates" I was floored. He has made nasty comments in my presence before about "dont worry baby you will be living with me soon not mommy." I chalked those up to just getting under my skin, but now she is coming home saying these things to me out of nowhere!!! As an educator i know how damaging it is for her to be told these things and how it leads to a sense of confusion and insecurity. I feel like our parenting mediator does nothing with this situation and is just there to be peaceful. I am tired of this whole thing and how he is so spiteful and harmful to the whole situation.
I honestly dont know what to do. My lawyer is probono and i hate to have to go back to court bc i feel like it is a bother and waste to her but i feel like he is getting away with harmful and damaging behavior.