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I so don't know what to do anymore. I love my husband and I would love for our family to be together again but there is so much hurt between us. He says I hurt him and I'm sure I did. He then hurt me even after telling me he didn't want to hurt me and that he wanted us to be together even after all we had put each other through. He said that he was proud of the changes that I had made and I am too. I needed to make changes and I did and I'm proud of myself for that cause I did it all by myself. Then I find out all of the changes that I thought he had made he really didn't he was just hiding them from me. I thought he had stopped seeing this girl and come to find out he hadn't 2 weeks after I find that out I find out I'm pregnant with our 3rd child. He actually asked me if I had planned this? I told him did he really think I would do that even if I could since he knows I wasn't suppose to be able to have anymore kids. I couldn't even believe that was coming out of his mouth.
There are moments like that were he just doesn't seem like he is the same man he use to be but then there are moments like today were he acts like my husband and the good man I know he is and can be.
I love that I'm pregnant by my husband and that we are having this baby but then I think why did it have to happen now of all times.
I wasn't suppose to have anymore kids and the time God see fit for me to have this miracle baby is right after we fall apart. I guess I just don't get it.
Sorry if nothing makes sense I just need to get this out I guess.
Thanks for listening ladies.
oh hun, i do really do feel for you. i think at the moment, you should concentrate on your pregnancy and your kids for now. when your baby is born and the hormones settle down, then you can re-evaluate where your relationship with him is heading. on the other hand, until he's willing to give up the other girl for good, then he's really not serious about sorting out his relationship with you and getting it back on track.