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May 1st, 2012, 10:54 AM
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i am 24 years old. I have two beautiful children that are my entire life. i got married and pregnant when i was 18(i was not pregnant when i got married, just young and naive). i fell i love with the man that i married, he is still the same, but that is the problem. for the last two years we've had several LONG discussions about me needing more from him. I feel guilty when we have these conversations because i feel like i'm trying to change him. he feels like i'm trying to change him too. I don't know what to do from here. he isn't giving me what i need and the more i'm around him, the less i want to be. my marriage is the only thing i haven't screwed up(except for my children). i don't want to get a divorce but i don't know if i love his man anymore. well, i obviously love him, his is the father of my children and with out him i wouldn't be who i am today. i'm just not sure if i love him the way i want to love my husband. it's more like a friendship now.... :/ please help me
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June 29th, 2012, 03:52 PM
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I'm kind of in the same boat you are. Obviously I don' t know your whole story but I hear what you're saying. I got married when I was 24 I believe. Now here I am 9 years later and I'm just not happy. I haven't been for many years. I don't get what I need from him. I would say that I'm neglected emotionally, mentally, physically. I need more and I want more and I can't change the person he is. I've changed SO much over the last 9 years and I now I know a lot more of what I want and need out of a husband. He cannot give that to me. I mean we're not even friends. It sucks. I have two kids too. But one thing we have to remember too is that we are teaching these children and I don't wnat my kids to grow up thinking that the way their dad and I are is the way a husband and wife should be. Hugs!!!
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