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November 10th, 2012, 05:47 PM
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So, for those of you who dont know, my abusive ex and i separated about 3 1/2 years ago. He has been doing everything in his power to hide as well as slander my name across the city we are from. Well, for the past 3 years I have been working with my state to try to get child support (yes, it took 3 looong years to get this together) and FINALLY they have served him with a pretrial conference for support enforcement next month! OMG. THREE YEARS of struggling to make ends meet with out him helping. So now he will owe 3 years past arrears due and what ever the judge decides also. Finally at last.

However on a random note, DH and I have been planing since the spring to move to Milwaukee this winter when our lease is up, his sister lives there. I just learned a week ago that my ex is moving to milwaukee in a few months. Coincidence? Not sure. How would he have known? Hmm...
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November 10th, 2012, 06:17 PM
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Um scratch this a bit.. i just got some extremely scary information and I dont know what to do about it: (NOTE: Kelly is actually one of my friends and he doesnt know it)


17:56
Nathan Theleprechaun Waldman
It goes off my incom
I have her address

17:57
Kelly Deice
NICE! what is it! LMAO!

17:57
Nathan Theleprechaun Waldman
Shes ****** noe
Now

17:57
Kelly Deice
haha how so?
oooh exciting!
whats her address?!??!?! i wanna send her random junk main ads!

17:59
Nathan Theleprechaun Waldman
Well i could hire someone to do something lok
Lol
Paybacks a *****

17:59
Kelly Deice
what do you mean? like, a PI?
payback? ooooh man you gotta share your thoughts!!!
dude this is like, super exciting!!!

18:01
Nathan Theleprechaun Waldman
No like she may end up twelve feet under

18:01
Kelly Deice
oh! LOL
oooh so you got some buddies who got fingers and ears and eyes in high places?
sweeeeet

18:04
Nathan Theleprechaun Waldman
More like low places lmao

18:04
Kelly Deice
dude lmfao
whats her address???? i wanna pull it up on google earth

18:05
Nathan Theleprechaun Waldman
Im at a friends so dont have it with me

18:05
Kelly Deice
oh, message it over to me later
and dont you mean 6 feet? lol

18:08
Nathan Theleprechaun Waldman
Six feet to shallow
Gotta burry her closer to the devil

18:13
Kelly Deice
lmao
how would you want it done?

18:14
Nathan Theleprechaun Waldman
Slowly and painfully

18:15
Kelly Deice
would you wanna do it yourself? or have someone else? lol. at her house? or no?
i dunno why but i find this sickly exciting

Nathan Theleprechaun Waldman
Im still workin on the details
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November 21st, 2012, 10:00 AM
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Are these texts between him and your friend (that he doesn't know is your friend)? That is scary. Have you thought about filing for a protective order?
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November 21st, 2012, 10:06 AM
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OMG, please take care of yourself

You need to send this info to the cops asap
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November 21st, 2012, 05:57 PM
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We got an order of protection I sent it to his state, it got to the other jurisdiction on Monday they probably have served him by now. But he was leaving town on Wed for the holiday so maybe they havent gotten to him yet. I also put in paperwork to get copies of the detectives reports but I have to wait for him to fill out a waiver of release because it includes conspiracy and death threats that he stupidly admitted to.
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November 24th, 2012, 09:23 PM
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OMG this is waaaay too scary! Just take care of yourself.
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December 19th, 2012, 07:55 AM
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I've been thinking about you... Any updates?
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December 31st, 2012, 11:51 PM
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Yup we hired a lawyer for the child support case because he hired a very expensive lawyer. There fore compelling us to get one. And now he is pushing very strongly for step parent adoption. He will owe a very large amount of past due support. So we think this is a ploy to try to get out of future due, or to try to find a way to weasel out of all or less past due with us in exchange for " allowing" us to go forward with a step parent adoption.
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January 21st, 2013, 11:55 AM
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I'd do the step parent adoption (actually did that myself). It seems like your child would be better off without him.
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I hope everything is okay!
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