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Finding the courage and actually following through is the hardest part or it was for me. I was unhappy for years as well. You should not feel awful if you are not happy and not in love you can not force yourself to love anyone espcially based on certain circumstances making you feel guilty. Have you thought about seeing a lawyer? Do you think your husband will give you any trouble of custody of the kids or anything like that? I wish you all the best and if you ever need to talk im here! Just stay strong
I have been divorced for 2 yrs. When we finally decided it was over it was a relief for me anyway. We were married for almost 12 yrs. I tried for a long time but he just didn't put the effort in. When he deployed I didn't really miss him and the kids were happier since there was less stress on me. I stayed longer because I didn't know how it would affect the kids. One day my daughter who was 10 at the time said Mom you deserve to be happy and it isn't with dad. Then I knew they would be okay if we separated.
Mom to Arielle13,Tyler 10.5, Dylan 8.5 and Autumn Rayne 21mths and Step dd Nevaeh 3