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Leaving for good 9/10/06 going back to Colorado
Marcus 5 years old and Angelo 18 months
My story is married to a Marine Recruiter found out he was having affair with a 18 year old high school student. Tried to make it work went on vacation for 6 weeks came home and found open condom wrapper under my bed. Hubby didn't come with us. Lost our baby at 14 weeks on 8/13/06 he didn't stay home to help with me and the kids and I decided right then that I deserve better than that and since then in my mind we are seperated but physically (sp?) won't be able to leave until 9/10/06.
I don't want to hate him but I still feel really hurt about what he did to our family.
I post on Pregnancy Loss
How long you have been divorced or separated: 6 years!!
Significant other's name (if you are involved with someone new, not your ex): Neely, almost 3 years
Children's (including step children's) names and ages: Sarah (17); James (15); Daniel (1); SO's boys William (7); Clayton (5)
Share as much or as little about your divorce/separation situation as you feel comfortable with: I divorced after 10 years of marriage. My ex husband fathered three children with another woman while we were married and had another long-term affair. We were on-again/off-again throughout our marriage and divorced amicably.
Do you still hold any ill feelings toward your ex about your situation? I haven't forgotten what he did to me, but I am no longer angry/resentful towards him.
What other boards do you post on at JM? September 05 Playroom; Moms to Teens and Preteens; Siggy Board
How long you have been divorced or separated: I have been separated since June 2004, filed for divorce in February 2006, still waiting on finalization.
Significant other's name (if you are involved with someone new, not your ex): Mike, fiance.
Children's (including step children's) names and ages: Avery, ds from ex, 4 years old. Quinn, baby due with Mike 2/1/07.
Share as much or as little about your divorce/separation situation as you feel comfortable with: My ex and I separated in June 2004 after barely 2 years of marriage. I filed for divorce in Feb. and am still waiting on finalization. We get along okay, with the occasional fights. He lives with his mom and sister now and is extremely jealous that I have moved on for good.
Do you still hold any ill feelings toward your ex about your situation? I still have some resentment toward him for being such an @$$hole, but overall I just don't care about him at all anymore.
What other boards do you post on at JM? I co-host Blended Families and Widely Spaced Siblings along with this one and post on the January 2007 DDC.