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September 6th, 2006, 08:09 AM
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Well, I finally got my soon to be ex-husband to type up the divorce papers so I can file them. I'm sad but then again I am relieved all at the same time. I guess no matter how badly things got you can't just shut off your feelings with the snap of your fingers. I by no means want him back in my life.. I am VERY happy with my decision. I guess this is what you call the last stage of the "greiving process" right??
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September 6th, 2006, 10:47 AM
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I don't know if it's the last stage or not. Even after I knew it was over in my marriage, I still had a lot of grieving to do. Here's to a speedy divorce for you!
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September 8th, 2006, 05:49 AM
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Here are the stages I think:
Shock
Anger
Acceptance
Anger
Peace
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September 8th, 2006, 06:17 AM
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It is different for everyone. I never felt anything but peace & happiness about my divorce. I never played the what if game. I found out my ex did. He has been calling my mom off & on for years now. We have not been together for over 8 years.
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September 8th, 2006, 07:59 AM
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How did it go with filing the papers?
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September 8th, 2006, 06:54 PM
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I don't know if it's the last stage or not. Even after I knew it was over in my marriage, I still had a lot of grieving to do. Here's to a speedy divorce for you![/b]
I agree. Even when the Judgment of Divorce came in the mail, there was a tinge of sadness. Hope it goes quickly for you.
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September 9th, 2006, 02:06 PM
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Just wanted to see how things are going? You know, I think no matter how right the decision is, it will always be difficult, if it weren't, you wouldn't be human. It's final, and it's an end to a huge part of your life, I know I'll be terrified if/when it comes to that stage.
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