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I'm going through a nasty divorce and a nastier custody case with where my x has lied up and down to the courts giving him full temporary custody. I've spent OVER 10,000.00 dollars in lawyers fees (well i owe that), i'm now out of a lawyer and i'm getting screwed. I'm tired of it, of not seeing my kids like i should, of being made to be a horrible mother and a horrible person and everything. I am tired of not seeing my daughter since december per the courts and i only see my son 6 hours a week and that is supervised by HIS mother, the f###### witch!!!!!! I can't believe this screwed up court system and this screwed up life of mine. My daughter has not seen angi never, my son only twice and that was just a peek and leave. I tried to get my X to see angi in the hospital and since and said "HE WANTED NOTHING TO DO WITH HER" and now 3 freaking months later i get papers for a DNA test, ***?! He's got the kids, the house, ALL the marital property both personal and physical, both cars and also to boot he's working two jobs making more then what we made when we were married and his mother takes care of the kids, i have no job and i still have to pay him child support of 400.00 a month, plus i have to pay 1/2 for a sitter for my daughter since i can't see my daughter and they claim they pay for a sitter. I'm tired of this, of getting screwed. I'm starting to think what is the use anymore. Me and my SO is having a major problem, basically same sh## that i went through with my X he's putting me through. He's controlling, demanding and abusive. He's always threatening to kick me out and said that if i left then i couldn't take Angi. And that if i left that he'd take angi away from me. Keeps telling me that i don't want to play that game with him...game we are talking about angi, our daughter not a freaking toy, property or anything else. Anyways, i'm going out to try and hopefully clear my head and try and figure out what i'm going to do, sometimes i feel like just up and leave and just say past is past and forget everything and everyone i know or have known.
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