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I'm having a really horrible problem. My poor almost 11 month old son is having hard stools. I EBF until about a month or two ago when he started showing interest in LOTS of foods. He still only eats (at best) one meal and one snack a day and the rest all BM. I think my supply is decreasing. I'm taking fenugreek, I eat oatmeal about 3 times a week, drink tons of fluids....My boobs just don't feel "full" anymore. I feel like I'm starving him. I didn't plan on weaning this early...is this just him trying to wean? He has a sippy cup that I put water in, but never drinks more than about 4 to 5 oz of water a day (only because I thought extra water would help the constipation). Why am I drying up? I feel terrible. I never thought I'd get so upset over this, but I feel like I'm failing my kid..........
I doubt you're drying up. I stopped feeling full probably by 3 months (never got engorged in the early days either), it is really not an indicator. I EBF for 6 months and am still breastfeeding and pregnant even though I cant squeeze a drop out (DD says there is milk there).
I think that if your supply really was going down that he'd be eating more of the solids. I would think that the constipation is just his system getting used to the food. I remember that DD had some constipation issues in the early days. What really helped us was to give her prunes. I usually tried to aim for one poo a day and so if she had gone a day and a half without I'd give her as much prunes as she wanted. I think I also experimented a bit with giving her few spoons a day but that was short lived. I think it probably took couple of months before her system got used to the solids.
ETA: I also noticed that as DD got older that I stopped hearing her swallowing and gulping the milk as much. It was only during night feedings that I did. It's bit unnerving since you cant see any evidence except plenty of wet diapers.
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Well.. for the fullness, I haven't felt "full" for months, except for in the mornings if she sleeps well or if I only nurse on one side at night. I think it's pretty common to not feel full once your supply regulates.
For the constipation, prune juice, prunes, and pears seem to help my DD.
I've read it's pretty uncommon for a baby to self wean before 18 months or so at the earliest. Is he rejecting nursing or has he cut back a lot? Why do you think he's starving? If he is still nursing and happy and content and wetting enough diapers each day there is no reason to think you're drying up or that he's weaning.
i do not think he is self weaning or that you are drying up. I would try some prune juice (i even made prune jello!) or applesauce to get things moving and cut back starchy foods, dairy and bananas until the BMs are less hard. Hang in there!!
I feel like he's starving because he wants to nurse all the time. Up until about 4 or 5 days ago, I felt full and would start tingling and could still watch my boobs get lumpy and let down. I'm not feeling that at all.
More than anything, I think I'm nervous. I didn't plan on stopping breastfeeding until he was at least 2, and then only if he didn't want it anymore. I definitely feel like he wants it now, but he gets so frustrated after about 5 minutes, switches to the other side and gets frustrated again. And just keeps going like that for about 30 minutes, then gives up for an hour or so and starts again.
I'm definitely going to give the prunes a try, I might have a pear in my refrigerator though that I'll try first if so.
Should I start pumping in between sessions? I've always been nervous to do that because I didn't want to steal his milk if he for some reason was hungry right after that......
So. This morning I woke up to ferocious cramps and the long awaited and dreaded return of AF! Thank you so much, I'm sure I sounded ridiculous, but I just knew something wasn't right! I start temping tomorrow!