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July 25th, 2013, 11:39 AM
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Baby may come home Friday. Currently when I nurse her at nicu, she still takes 1 or 2 oz after. She isn't interested in nursing more but takes the bottle. At her other feeds, she takes 3 oz via bottle. (All breastmilk). I never felt the need to worry about how much baby ate with my older kids, but they weren't born in the same circumstances.

When she comes home, should I just abandon my fear and only offer the breast? Or should I just offer breast first at every feed then finish with bottle until she stops needing to eat more after nursing?

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July 25th, 2013, 05:09 PM
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Personally I would offer breast as often as baby wants it and not a bottle. They tend to eat more than necessary when offered a bottle and may not actually be hungry. I was a NICU RN and its very much about so many ounces every 3 hours when there but not so much so at home. As long as baby is nursing, has wet diapers, and is gaining weight I would only offer breast.
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July 25th, 2013, 06:36 PM
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Ditto. As long as baby is gaining weight and having enough wet diapers, there's no need to offer a bottle. I would just breastfeed on demand.
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July 26th, 2013, 04:54 AM
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I would stop with the bottle and if you are using any pacifiers. Make the breast the only place your baby can get their need to suck satisfied and put them to the breast as much as possible. Hopefully once you are home, things will fall into place and get easier!
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July 26th, 2013, 01:48 PM
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Thanks! This is what I will do, then This whole situation has made me feel like a breastfeeding newb... that and it's been 5 years since my last baby. I hope I can breastfeed her as long as I have my other kids (18 months - 3 years).
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July 31st, 2013, 06:47 AM
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I would offer only breast too, but I would suggest doing it under the care of a LC. Was your baby premature (you mentioned NICU)? Premature babies sometimes have a harder time transferring milk and can transfer more with a nipple shield. You wouldn't have to see one for long I suspect. Just to do a few before and after feed weight check to see the milk transfer and to ensure the baby is gaining weight properly.
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July 31st, 2013, 06:57 AM
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I need to find a local LC my insurance will cover. I spoke to my midwife about it and she helped me find the problem (I was still exclusively pumping until yesterday because every time I tried to feed it hurt like hell, despite her having a beautiful latch! The problem was simple--I needed nipple cream BEFORE feeding. I was only using it after. For some reason using it before stops the baby from clamping down on me. It's the weirdest thing! So now here we go again...

And yes she is preemie and was in NICU for 6 weeks.
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July 31st, 2013, 07:02 AM
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Do you have Aetna? What area are you in? I may be able to recommend one who has your insurance.
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July 31st, 2013, 08:12 AM
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No I don't. I had pregnancy medicaid. I think I have nothing now actually because I'm past 6 weeks.
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July 31st, 2013, 08:47 AM
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You can always check out Baby2Breast, many on there are reasonable and some do a sliding scale. Also, if baby still has insurance, you may be able to bill under the baby.
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July 31st, 2013, 08:57 AM
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Awesome! Baby still has insurance. I will check out Baby2Breast!
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